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Self Esteem and Your Athletes By Joe Richer, CAA

Self Esteem and Your Athletes By Joe Richer, CAA. WIAA Coaches School Yakima, Wa . 2011. The camaraderie of teamwork. Listen. Listening. “Being listened to is so close to being loved that some people cannot tell the difference”. David Oxford.

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Self Esteem and Your Athletes By Joe Richer, CAA

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  1. Self Esteem and Your AthletesBy Joe Richer, CAA WIAA Coaches School Yakima, Wa. 2011

  2. The camaraderie of teamwork.

  3. Listen

  4. Listening “Being listened to is so close to being loved that some people cannot tell the difference”. David Oxford

  5. “Coaching is a profession of love. You can’t coach people unless you love them.” • Eddie Robinson • Grambling University • 400+ Wins

  6. Coach/Role Model “Who you are speaks so loudly, I can’t hear what you are saying.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

  7. “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.” • Aristotle

  8. Nathaniel Branden • “How we feel about ourselves crucially affects virtually every aspect of our experience, from the way we function at work, in love, in sex, to the way we operate as parents, to how high in life we are likely to rise.” • “I cannot think of a single psychological problem that is not traceable to a poor self-concept.”

  9. Nathaniel Braden • Six Pillars of Self Esteem

  10. “The Man in the Glass!!”

  11. Self Esteem • What it’s not! • It’s not a sometime thing, it’s all the time. • It’s not bragging (Today’s peacock, curl in the tail) • It’s not an illusion or an hallucination • It is not the euphoria or buoyancy that may be temporarily induced by a drug, a compliment or a love affair • It is not empty praise that bears no relationship to the athletes actual accomplishments.

  12. Self EsteemWhat it’s not: (cont) • - It is not being good looking, wealthy, or having many friends. Many of these people cannot get through a single day without drugs. • - It is not 12 hugs a day at school. Kid still has to go home. Gets a false sense. • - Nothing bothers you if you have high self esteem.

  13. 1900 – 90% of grandchildren lived with or in the neighborhood of grandparents • 1940 – 70% • Today – Less than 10% • The “Gran Torino” granddaughter.

  14. SELF ESTEEM What is it? 80% 1st Grade 20% 5th Grade 5% Seniors

  15. Genevieve Karen Richer!?

  16. Peta Lyn Eriksen

  17. Self Concept and Self Esteem SELF CONCEPT SELF ESTEEM Global definition of all self concepts • Coach • Teacher • Parent • Church member • Relationships • Athlete • Spouse

  18. DEFINITION • “the disposition to experience oneself as competent to cope with life’s challenges and being worthy of happiness.” • Nathaniel Branden

  19. The thrill of victory!

  20. You lose.

  21. Laughing

  22. Poker Chip Theory • Relationships • Classroom • Athletic Venue

  23. Holistic Model of Self Esteem • Thought • Intuition • Imagination • Body • Emotions • The Will • Higher Self

  24. Thoughts • 50,000 Thoughts a Day • Do you talk to yourself? • Negative thought patterns must be changed • Affirmations • Don’t • Burying “Can’t”

  25. The Body • Self Acceptance • Mirror Exercise • “Whatever my defects or imperfections, I accept myself unreservedly and completely.” • (Accepting does not mean liking-a fact is a fact).

  26. “As a man thinketh, so is he.” • Bible • “Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.” • Henry Ford

  27. Kineseology Exercise • Lee Iacoca story

  28. The Skyscraper Fantasy

  29. False • Experiences • Appearing • Real

  30. E + R = O • Lemons/Lemonade • Martha Stewart • Amputees • Jesse Owens

  31. GOAL SETTING • Conceivable • Believable • Achievable • Controlable • Measureable • Desirable • Stated with No Alternative • Growth Facilitating

  32. Thank You • Joe.richer@daktronics.com

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