CHCCSL501A Work within a structured counselling framework

1. CHCCSL501A Work within a structured counselling framework # 4 : Counsellors’ Qualities & Skills

2. Lesson Outline What attracted you to counselling? Characteristics you need to develop to become an effective counsellor Counsellors’ personal challenges

3. Becoming a Counsellor What attracted you to counselling ?

4. What attracts people to the field of counselling? Counselling is a profession that attracts people who have developed an understanding of themselves, who practise a high level of empathy and have the basic desire to help others. http://www.thecounsellorsguide.co.uk/counselling-do-you-have-what-takes.html

5. What attracts people to the field of counselling? As counselling is one of the caring professions, warmth and social skills are critical for building relationships with people from all walks of life. Ivey, A.E. & Ivey, M.B. (2010) Self reflection activity:To become a counsellor, we need to become aware of our strengths as helpers/ Write down the following: When have you helped someone? Be specific What did you do that helped that person? What strengths do you have that will enable you to become good at counselling & interviewing skills?

6. Personal characteristics of effective Counsellors Empathy em·pa·thy [em-puh-thee] noun the intellectual identification with or vicarious experiencing of the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another http://thesaurus.com/browse People often confuse the words empathy & sympathy: Empathy refers to the ability to understand and share the feelings of another; caring without taking on the issue personally Sympathy refers to feelings of pity and sorrow for someone else’s misfortune http://oxforddictionaries.com/definition/empathy?q=empathy

7. Personal characteristics of effective Counsellors Congruence con·gru·ence [kong-groo-uh ns] noun the quality or state of agreeing or corresponding http://thesaurus.com/browse Agreement or harmony, compatibility http://oxforddictionaries.com/definition/empathy?q=empathy

8. Personal characteristics of effective Counsellors Unconditional Positive Regard Unconditional positive regard is an important part of the non-directive, client-centered therapy created by humanist psychologist Carl Rogers. It involves showing complete support and acceptance of a person no matter what they say or do. This is an attitude of grace, an attitude that values us even knowing our ailings. It is a profound relief to drop our pretenses, confess our worst feelings, and discover we are still accepted. As with a good marriage, a close family or an intimate friendship, we are free to be spontaneous without fearing the loss of another's esteem http://thesaurus.com/browse Youtube video: CARL ROGERS AND GLORIA COUNSELLING PT 2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m30jsZx_Ngs As you watch, observe Roger’s skills using the Person Centred Therapy Observation Handout

9. Personal characteristics of effective Counsellors Concreteness con·crete [kon-kreet, kong] adjective, noun, verb Pertaining to or concerned with realities or actual instances rather than abstractions; particular (opposed to general): concrete ideas. http://thesaurus.com/browse Concreteness is an aspect of communication that means being specific, definite, and vivid rather than vague or general. Concrete communication uses specific facts and figures. Concreteness contributes to effective communication. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Concreteness

10. Personal characteristics of effective Counsellors Some other personal traits of the counsellor have been found to be very important. The Association of Counsellor Education and Supervision (USA) indicated that the Counsellor should have six basic qualities: belief in each individual commitment to individual human values alertness to the world open mindedness understanding of self professional commitment George, R. L. & Cristiani, T. S. (1995) Youtube video: Qualities needed to be a Psychotherapist or Counsellor! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8UN4i7u7Ec

11. Personal values in Counselling Among the most significant values a counsellor can possess to drive them to be a skilled helper are: Respect The all encompassing driver of the counselling relationship Morals A conviction to act ethically to follow the golden rule to do no harm Egan, G. (2010)

12. Overall skills required in Counselling Empathy Rapport Active listening Respectful responding Well timed challenging Attention to the counselling relationship Contracting appropriate to context Be non-judgemental Manage own values so they do not impede effective work Self care to manage the stress of the work Professional development

13. Overall skills required in Counselling Ability to work within the counselling framework eg. Implement the model of counselling and intervention Ability to apply policies, principles & procedures to secure and maintain confidentiality including note-taking, record and log keeping and identity protection Youtube videos & Role Play Handout: Counselling Skills Lecture 3 Rapport http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRGWhR9L5-Q 2. CARL ROGERS AND GLORIA COUNSELLING - PT 3 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RX_Y3zUPzEo

14. Counsellors’personal challenges The nature of counselling is often challenging especially when therapists are just beginning. Dealing with counsellors own anxieties Corey, G. (2009)

15. Counsellors’personal challenges Being ourselves and disclosing our experience Aim to create genuineness by being oneself Avoid going to the two possible extremes: Hiding behind a façade where you are anonymous to the client Revealing too much either about your impression of the client too soon, or about your own life

16. Counsellors’ personal challenges Productive self disclosure involves immediacy ‘The skill of immediacy involves revealing what we are thinking or feeling in the here and now with the client, but be careful to avoid pronouncing judgments on the client’ Corey, G. (2009)

17. Counsellors’personal challenges Avoiding perfectionism You will make some mistakes!

18. Counsellors’personal challenges Being honest about our limitations

19. Counsellors’personal challenges Understanding silence Silent moments during a therapeutic session may seem like silent hours to a beginning therapist Silence can have many meanings

20. Counsellors’personal challenges Dealing with demands from clients One way of heading off these demands is to make your expectations and boundaries clear during the initial counselling sessions or in the disclosure statement Corey, G. 2009

21. Counsellors’personal challenges Dealing with clients who lack commitment Counsellors who omit preparation and do not address clients’ thoughts and feelings about coming to counseling are likely to encounter resistance Corey, G. 2009

22. Counsellors’personal challenges Tolerating ambiguity

23. Counsellors’personal challenges Avoiding losing ourselves in our clients

24. Counsellors’personal challenges Developing a sense of humour

25. Counsellors’personal challenges Sharing responsibility with the client Find an optimum balance between: a) Mistakenly taking full responsibility for the outcomes of therapy and b) Not taking enough responsibility for accurately assessing clients’ needs and designing appropriate treatments

26. Counsellors’ personal challenges “Perhaps the best measure of our effectiveness as counsellors is the degree to which clients are able to say to us, “I appreciate what you have been to me, and because of your faith in me, and what you have taught me, I am confident I can go it alone.” Corey, G 2009, p 32

27. Counsellors’personal challenges Declining to give advice ‘Our task is to help clients make independent choices and accept the consequences of their choices.’ Corey, G 2009, p32

28. Counsellors’personal challenges Defining your role as a counsellor Your role may alter depending on: The population you work with Actual therapeutic services you or your workplace provides The particular stage of counselling

29. Counsellors’personal challenges Learning to use techniques appropriately

30. Counsellors’personal challenges Developing your own counselling style ‘Be aware of the tendency to copy the style of a supervisor, therapist or some other model. There is no one way to conduct therapy, & wide variations in approach can be effective.’ Corey, G 2009, p 33

31. Counsellors’personal challenges Staying vital as a person and as a professional ‘Ultimately, your single most important instrument is the person you are, and your most powerful technique is your ability to model aliveness and realness.’ Corey, G. 2009, p33.

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