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Bullying. What is it?

Bullying. What is it?. DELIBERATE REPEATED EXERCISE OF POWER. WHERE DOES IT HAPPEN?. At school both inside and out Playing out Home Work It happens everywhere. WHY IT HAPPENS?. Why bullies bully? To appear confident/cool To be in charge To get attention

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Bullying. What is it?

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  1. Bullying. What is it? • DELIBERATE • REPEATED • EXERCISE OF POWER

  2. WHERE DOES IT HAPPEN? • At school both inside and out • Playing out • Home • Work • It happens everywhere

  3. WHY IT HAPPENS? • Why bullies bully? • To appear confident/cool • To be in charge • To get attention • To get things from the victim • To make others afraid/respect them

  4. OTHER REASONS Jealousy Because they are bullied To fit in with a gang There are lots and lots of reasons

  5. PHYSICAL VERBALEMOTIONAL STEALING KICKING NAME CALLING TEASING EXCLUDING HUMILIATING TYPES OF BULLYING

  6. KNOW YOUR BULLY • Three types • Confident aggressive bully who wants to feel secure • This is the one we recognize easily!

  7. KNOW YOUR BULLY • The anxious bully • This person tends to be less popular and weaker in school • This person may have become a bully to hide this

  8. KNOW YOUR BULLY • The bully victim • This type tends to have been bullied before by others and is, he feels “getting his own back” • This type also tends not to be popular

  9. School will have policy • You have the right to a safe environment • Your school encourages you to speak out • It will investigate incidents fully and seek to resolve the problem

  10. School will help • BUT you must be sensible and report it • Bullying will only thrive where there is silence and fear • Do not have bullies in your circle of friends

  11. Advice and Guidance • If you are bullied it is NOT your fault • Take action speak out • Do not retaliate • Do not ‘buy off’ the bully with presents

  12. DO NOT IGNORE IT • Telling an adult will make it better not worse • Your school will want to stop the bullying • Bullying may be a crime!!

  13. CRIMINAL BULLIES • Theft of your things • Vandalism of your things • Violence against you. If adults punch/kick someone and the police are involved the adult may go to court

  14. Dealing with bullies • CRIMINALS ARE DEALT WITH BY THE COURTS YOUR SCHOOL MAY HAVE OTHERS METHODS • DETENTION • HAVE TO SAY SORRY AND HEAR HOW THE VICTIM FELT • HAVE TO DO SOMETHING FOR THE VICTIM TO MAKE UP FOR THE BULLYING • LOSS OF A TREAT

  15. WHY ARE CRIMINALS PUNISHED? • RESTORE THE BALANCE THE CRIMINAL HAS TAKEN AN UNFAIR ADVANTAGE EG BY STEALING FROM THE VICTIM

  16. PURPOSE OF PUNISHMENT • TO MAKE THEM SO AFRAID HE / SHE WILL NOT DO IT AGAIN • REFORM THEM MAKE HIM/HER SEE WHY IT IS WRONG

  17. DOES PUNISHEMNT WORK? SOME QUESTIONS • ARE YOU LESS LIKELY TO DO THE ACT AGAIN IF YOU ARE PUNISHED? • SHOULD YOU BE PUNISHED MORE HARSHLY IF YOU CONTINUE TO DO WRONG AGAIN AND AGAIN? • THE ALTERNATIVE: • BRINGING THE PARTIES TOGETHER TO SEEK TO RESOLVE THE CONFLICT MAY HELP • LISTENING TO BOTH SIDES OF THE PROBLEMS AND SEEKING AN AGREED SOLUTION

  18. WHAT WORKS TO STOP BULLYING? • IF THE BULLY THINKS THEY WILL BE CAUGHT THEY MAY WELL THINK TWICE BEFORE THEY BULLY • DON’T BE PART OF THE BULLY’S CIRCLE OF FRIENDS • HELP ANYONE YOU SEE BEING BULLIED • KEEP YOUR SCHOOL A BULLY FREE ZONE

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