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Punishment vs Preventive System?

Punishment vs Preventive System?. A spirituality of presence - 2. Don Bosco wrote in 1883….

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Punishment vs Preventive System?

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  1. Punishment vs Preventive System? A spirituality of presence - 2

  2. Don Bosco wrote in 1883… I have been repeatedly and even persistently asked to provide some guidelines for our directors, school administrators, and teachers regarding the perplexing problems that arise when we have to resort to the administration of punishment in our houses…..

  3. On administering punishments in Salesian houses The little document contained: • Five sections • Several recommendations • Much wisdom

  4. 1. Punish only as a last resort I urge our directors then to correct a child in much the same way a loving father would correct his son. But - and I cannot emphasize this too strongly - do so in private.

  5. 2. The Right Place and the Right Time If we use so much care in healing an illness or an injury, should we not be equally solicitous in character healing? Experience will teach the educator when the need for medicine is called for and a spirit of loving kindness will instruct him how to administer it. The two must be combined.

  6. 3. Let every punishment carry a clear message The clear message I am stressing is that the punishment you are administering is not the result of an emotional outburst. The boys entrusted to our care are our sacred trust. Just as Jesus came to serve and not be served, we have to serve each child in the same spirit.

  7. 4. The culprit must be assured that the educator does not carry a grudge Every punishment leaves a trail of anxiety and even stress in its wake. Therefore an encouraging word to the youth who has been punished will make the transition more humane. Every boy who has been subjected to some kind of disciplinary punishment must be made to feel that the educator puts his trust in him to change his ways, and that he will not hold any grudge against him for his past misconduct.

  8. 5. What kinds of punishment should be used and who should use them. I am well aware that in the Scriptures the Lord compared himself to a “watchful rod” in order to keep us from sin and instill in us a fear of the consequences. There is no reason why an educator cannot follow the same lines of reasoning in administering punishment. We have our own version of the ‘rod’, so let us use it wisely and humanely.

  9. 5. The kinds of punishment that should be used and who should use them. • I have learned from my visits to the city jails in my early years that harsh punishments may penalize the crime, but it does not rehabilitate the criminal. You cannot force a plant to grow straight by violently bending it.

  10. 5. What kinds of punishment should be used and who should use them? I would like to add a few guidelines to serve you when disciplinary measures must be taken in our schools: a. When a boy misbehaves or is disorderly, let him know that you are keenly disappointed in him. If such a lad esteems and respects his teacher, he will never make the same mistake twice out of respect for him.

  11. 5. What kinds of punishment should be used and who should use them? • b. Any reprimand that must be given must be given in private and in a fatherly manner.

  12. 5. What kinds of punishment should be used and who should use them? c. Do not reprimand a boy time and time again. Repetitious corrections in time become meaningless.

  13. 5. What kinds of punishment should be used and who should use them? • d. Make it clear to the culprit that in breaking the rules of the school he has not only disappointed you, but has let his parents down as well.

  14. 5. What kinds of punishment should be used and who should use them? e. Trace out the consequences of his bad behavior to him. Then contrast that with the good feelings that await someone who follows the rules.

  15. Dismissal In reference to more serious offenses, I refer to breaches in morality and even to the breaking of the law. If the guilty party continues to give bad example and shows no signs of amending his ways, let him be summarily dismissed. Patience has its limits. But the action taken in the case of the student’s expulsion should be affected in a manner that will protect his good name as much as possible.

  16. Wisdom I urge you with all my heart to heed these recommendations. God will bless you for it. And let me repeat what I have said many times: Education is a matter of the heart. How do we acquire this “educated heart” in our dealings with our boys? Prayer is one of the most effective ways. Pray to him our Master-teacher, to help you acquire that difficult art of reaching the human heart.

  17. For discussion • How do you feel Don Bosco's ideas on salesian punishment can assist you in your ministry? • What do you feel we need to do to make our salesian correction (punishment) even more salesian into the future? • What are your fears/concerns regarding our implantation of Don Bosco's way of correcting our young people?

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