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Positive Solutions for Families

Positive Solutions for Families. Session 3 Why Do Children Do What They Do?. What’s Happening Today?. Share your Things to Try at Home activities Playing with your child (following his/her lead) Behaviors to see less of and more of Determining the meaning of behavior

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Positive Solutions for Families

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  1. Positive Solutions for Families Session 3 Why Do Children Do What They Do?

  2. What’s Happening Today? • Share your Things to Try at Home activities • Playing with your child (following his/her lead) • Behaviors to see less of and more of • Determining the meaning of behavior • Making our expectations clear • Developing household rules • Review Things to Try at Home activities

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  5. Time-Out 5 Step 1: Provide brief explanation and guide child to chair. Remain calm. Step 2: Set a timer (3 to 4 minutes only) and let your child know (calmly) that when the timer goes off, he/she can get up. If your child leaves prior to that time, return your child to the chair. Step 3: When time is over, allow child to return to activity. Provide child with positive, calmly stated, and brief reminder to use appropriate skills. Praise an appropriate behavior as soon as possible.

  6. Common Mistakes: Time-Out 6 • Angrily threatening time-out • Gives child the attention he/she is wanting • Allowing other children to tease the child who is in time-out • Gives the child attention • Applying time-out long after the behavior has occurred • Time-out is only effective when immediately applied. • Scolding your child when putting him/her in or out of time-out • Time-out only works when it is time away from adult attention.

  7. Make Your “Expectations” Clear Tell your child what to do instead of what not to do. Clearly and simply state what you expect your child to do. Have age-appropriate expectations. Use age-appropriate language. Young children have difficulty with contractions (two words that are combined to form one, such as “don’t” and “can’t”).

  8. What’s a Better Way to Say?Workbook Activity #10 8 Stop yelling! Don’t throw your toys! Stop bothering your sister! Don’t spill your milk. Stop whining. Be good. Be nice. Cut it out.

  9. “Rules” for Rules • Pick only 3 to 5. • State the behavior you want to see. Be descriptive. What does the behavior look like? • Pick rules that can be applied in a lot of situations.

  10. Rule Examples • Clean up after yourself. • Use an inside voice. • Ask before you use something that is not yours. • Use words to solve problems.

  11. What do you think about these rules?Workbook Activity #11 • Be nice to everyone. • Don’t tease or hit. • Put your laundry in the hamper. Workbook Handout #12

  12. Show and Tell Practice Makes Perfect You Got It! Help Me Be Successful!Teach me what to do!

  13. Using Pictures to Teach Rules • Get out your camera • Snap a photograph of what you want your child “to do” • Post it, model it, practice it, and notice when it’s done and praise it! • If your rule is “clean up”…show him/her

  14. Things to Try at Home! • Observations – Determining the Meaning of Behavior (Activity #9) • Developing Household Rules (Activities #11-12) • Have fun with your child!

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