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How Self-Regulation Shapes Executive Functioning in Children

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How Self-Regulation Shapes Executive Functioning in Children

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  1. How Self-Regulation Shapes Executive Functioning in Children Why Regulation Comes Before Thinking Parents often hear that executive functioning (EF) is about planning, organising, remembering instructions, and shifting between tasks. But there’s a missing foundation beneath all of that: self-regulation. A child who can’t regulate their emotions or body can’t access their EF skills, even if they normally use them well. When the nervous system is overwhelmed, EF doesn’t just weaken—it temporarily shuts down.

  2. The Brain in “Storm Mode” EF works like an airport control tower. It manages what needs to happen, guides transitions, and helps everything run smoothly. Self-regulation, meanwhile, is the weather around that tower. When things are calm, planes keep moving. But when there’s a storm, it doesn’t matter how skilled the pilots are—the runway closes. This is what happens when a child is tired, overstimulated, anxious, or dysregulated. Even a capable child who normally manages tasks independently can completely fall apart after a long or overwhelming day. Their “thinking brain” is offline, and no amount of reminders or consequences will switch it back on until their body settles. Why Dysregulation Looks Like “Behaviour” Kids often express dysregulation through actions: snapping, crying, shutting down, resisting tasks, or getting frustrated. It’s not defiance; it’s communication. A child who seems “uncooperative” usually doesn’t have access to the part of the brain that helps them reason, plan, and adapt. Adults experience something similar—nobody makes great decisions when they’re exhausted or upset. The difference is that children have far fewer internal tools and far less emotional bandwidth. What Actually Helps Regulation Return Supporting executive functions isn’t about stricter discipline or forcing a child to “push through.” It’s about helping them regulate so their thinking brain can come back online. Often, short moments of connection, movement, breathing, or sensory input are enough to reset the nervous system. This isn’t “rewarding bad behaviour”—it’s giving the brain what it needs to function. Making daily routines more predictable also reduces the load on a child’s nervous system. When transitions and expectations feel clear, the brain frees up resources for EF skills like impulse control, organisation, and flexibility. Modelling Calm Helps Kids Learn It Children learn regulation not just from what we tell them, but from what we do. When adults say things like,

  3. “I’m overwhelmed, so I’m going to take a minute to breathe,” children see that calm is something you create, not something you wait for. Over time, they start to use the same strategies themselves. Regulation Is the Foundation of EF The true takeaway is simple: executive functioning cannot grow without self-regulation. When a child’s body and emotions feel steady, their brain has the space to plan, process, and adapt. When parents focus on regulation first, everyday tasks—homework, routines, transitions, social interactions—become far easier. Support a child’s regulation, and their EF skills strengthen naturally. It’s not a shortcut; it’s the ground everything else stands on. 1 Pemimpin Drive #11-08 Singapore 576151 +65 9115 8895 enquiries@totalcommunication.com.sg www.totalcommunication.com.sg/

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