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Being honest about your lifeApart from what you want in a relationship, it goes without saying that you need to be honest about your life in general. Never give false information about your marital status, job, income, mental state. People
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If you have just entered the online dating scene and want to date black men, you are probably full of enthusiasm and curiosity. All the prospects of getting to know new cultures and traditions, when dating someone from another race, can definitely be very exciting.
There is a danger hidden into this excitement though: forgetting what you want from dating. Both women and men make this mistake quite often. When we fall in love with someone we will do whatever it takes, in order to be with them. Sometimes we even tend to lose ourselves and mirror the person we have a crush on. Have you ever ended up at a football match, having no clue how you got there?
. White women looking for black menlook for different things and that's OK. But what is it that YOU are looking for? If you do not have a definite answer and you are more flexible or choose to go with the flow, that's alright too. Still it is good to define some boundaries that you wouldn't like to cross. This will help you avoid being taken advantage of.
Be honest with your dateA relationship takes two to happen. This means that you need to be honest not only with your self, but with your date as well.
Not speaking up is also lyingYes, that's true. Lying is not just about giving false information about someone. It is also about letting people make the wrong assumptions and letting people believe that you go along with their choices.
Being honest about your lifeApart from what you want in a relationship, it goes without saying that you need to be honest about your life in general. Never give false information about your marital status, job, income, mental state.