How to be the best version of yourself

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2. In life, we will face many hurdles, some of them will make us stumble or fall, but no matter how many times you fall, it is okay as long as you get up, each time being the better version of the past you. Depending on the situation, most people randomly evolve instead of putting a conscious effort to direct their evolution. I will share my personal experience on how I evolved. Early in my career, I was under the sheltered care of my manager. There I worked safely and comfortably until my manager changed, suddenly I was thrown into the fray. I struggled just like a fish out of water. At a certain point, I realized that there was only one way out of it, so I consciously decided to evolve myself. There are a lot of techniques out there, but my metamorphosis came from the model developed by Robert Dilts in the form of NLP. Below are the pillars that transformed me to be the best version of myself

3. Self-Awareness: Be aware of yourself, understand your strengths and your weakness. Do not try to copy others, and no, the answers you give at the interviews like being a workaholic or perfectionist are not your weakness. At least have answers for these questions What makes you happy and confident What makes you feel frustrated Factors that pull you down and hinders your confidence

4. After analyzing myself, I found that one of the factors that negatively impacted my confidence was my eyesight. I started using glasses back in third grade, which was thrilling at the beginning, but as days went by, my friends started picking on me, slowly I began losing my confidence as my life revolved around these glasses. To improve my self-confidence, I corrected my eyesight with Lasik surgery. The joy I experienced after that was beyond description, and I was finally able to get rid of my glasses.

5. Mindset: Attitude: Every problem has a solution, and it is up to us whether we look at the problem or its solution. This shift made me realize that mindset matters above all. To every problem, there is already a solution whether you know it or not Grenville Kleiser Next, I wanted to develop a positive attitude, so I forcefully started looking at things positively. This approach helped me find opportunities in all challenges, affecting my life favorably in all areas.

6. Comfort zone: Until you conquer your fears and push through your boundaries, you will never know your real strength Greatness begins beyond your comfort zone Robin Sharma Forgive and let go Resentments: Let go of your resentments, or else it will swallow you. Forgive yourself and learn from your setbacks. Forgive others and just move on.

7. Master your Crafts: There is an opportunity to learn even from your enemies. Be an ever-learning student, and make excellence be your brand. Associate with knowledgeable and open-minded people, so that you get new insights and perspectives Grab your opportunities: Don’t hesitate to take the opportunities that come your way. If somebody offers you an amazing opportunity, but you are not sure you can do it, say yes – then learn how to do it later Richard Branson

8. Identity: Make inner thoughts and appearance speak the same language Purpose of Life & Values: Keep your purpose close to your heart, or else you will regret it. Don’t corrupt your core values or else it might break you Your name, body language, dressing sense, and so on together contributes to your identity. Reimagine yourself to be what you aspire to become.

9. Final Thought: We have only one life, no matter what, be the best version of yourself These are the things to know about in How to be the best version of yourself Thank You!! Read Latest articles from @The Lessons Guy • How to Improve Communication with Spouse • How to gain more confidence