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Reasons for writing the book Success: Covey’s point of view Example: Thomas Edison. No certain goal Laziness Depression Lack of self confidence. Focus on Friends. Focus on Things. Focus on Parents. Focus on College. Focus on Principles. Is intersecton of three : Knowledge Skills
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Reasons for writing the book • Success: • Covey’s point of view • Example: Thomas Edison
No certain goal • Laziness • Depression • Lack of self confidence
Focus on Friends. Focus on Things. Focus on Parents. Focus on College. Focus on Principles.
Is intersectonof three : • Knowledge • Skills • Desire
“Sow a thought and you reap an act. Sow an act and you reap a habit. Sow a habit and you reap a character. Sow a character and you reap a destiny.”
Dependence • Independence • Interdependence
Proactive Language Reactive Language I'll try That's just how I am There's nothing I can do I can't You ruined my day • I'll do it • I can do better than that • Let's look at our options • There has to be a way • I'm not going to let your bad mood rub off on me
Pro-active Reactive
Direct . • Indirect . • No control . The solution: Circle of Influence
Have’s (Reactive) Be’s (Proactive) I can be a better role model… I can be more organized / resourceful… I will be more diligent… I can be more loving / understanding… I can seek out personnel and be able to understand… • I’ll be happy when I have a full establishment… • If only I had a boss who wasn’t... • If I had respect from… • If I could just have management days… • If the environment was more conducive…
“When we pick up one end of the stick , we pick the other ” Success is on one far side of failure .
Work in your circle of influence, make small commitments and keep it . • Be part of the solution, not part of the problem . • When you have a mistake, admit it, correct it, learn from it ,and stop blaming . • Look at the weakness of others with compassion, not accusation . • If you start to think the problem is "out there," stop yourself. That thought is the problem.
As in computer metaphor habit 1 says: “you are programmer” , habit 2 says : “write the program”. • Meaning of beginning with the end • How different our lives when we really know what is important to us
There's mental or first creation and physical or second creation to all things.
Management is doing things right, Leadership is doing the right things
There are 2 additional unique human gifts that enable us to expand our proactively are imagination and conscience.
Because each individual is unique, a personal mission will reflect that uniqness. • Personal mission based on correct principles. • We detect our mission in life rather than inventing it
Writing is not done in Day and night, It takes a While.
Determine your priorities. • Achieve your goals according to your standards and your principles. • Increase your focus. • The size of your abilities.
Collect your favourite quotes. • All inside your mind. • Escape away. • For lazy people take your time. • Make it unique
Whitney Nozsky I will always give you my best shot I care - world - life - people - self I love - me - family - world - knowledge - education - life I fight - for my beliefs - for my feelings - for achievement - for Voluntary work - for believing on my self Building bridges for life friends family hardworking I will get my career as soon as I graduate The idea of having fun Belief on success Focus on my plan Mind knows no boundaries and the heart knows no fear They’ll always remember me
Three warnings: 1.Negative titles. They used to call me 2.Saying "It's over”. 3.Wrong goals. Often in our quest for more fame to be apart of the favourite group we lose our sight to the things that is more important.
Calculate the cost. • Make it written. • Just do it. • Co-operation Add a touch of realism. The goal that is not written is just a wish. Do it or not ,but don’t try. Whenever your ropes increase, your chances for success increase.
Take the advantage of the important moments. New house New job Second chance Victory Gradu-ation New season New city New acade-mic year New friend Promo-tion
Remember that life is a message, Gandhi had his message to liberate 200 Indians, Martin Luther King had a message to ensure the civil rights to all people. Enjoy your day
The key to time management is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule but to schedule your priorities. • It’s almost impossible to say NO to the popularity of urgent , non important matters , if you don’t have a bigger YES burning inside.