Building the Engaged Church

1. Building the Engaged Church Larry Hammond

2. Building An Engaged Church What is a Strength? • How Can You Identify Strengths • How to Manage Non-Strengths • What is Engagement? • Why Does It Matter? • What Drives Engagement? • How to Develop Engagement

3. Why Am I Here? • Background • Passion • Values • Legacy – “Want to Impact Lives”

4. Humor

5. What is a Strength? A strength is the ability to provide consistent, near-perfect performance in a given activity. This ability is a powerful, productive combination of talent, skill and knowledge.

6. What are Talents? Talents are naturally reoccurring patterns of thought, feeling or behavior that can be productively applied. Unlike skills and knowledge, talents naturally exist within you and cannot be acquired.

7. What is a Spiritual Gift? • Spiritual gifts are gifts that are bestowed on Christians, each having his or her proper gift to strengthen the church. • Spiritual gifts are God-given graces meant for works of service, to benefit and build up the body of Christ as a whole.

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9. Focus on Strengths • “The gift you • have received, • give as a gift.” • - Matthew 10:8

10. Focus on Strengths Skill (Ability to perform) Knowledge (What you know) Talent (God-given gifts) + + = Strength

11. What are Skills? Skills are basic abilities to move through the fundamental steps of a given task. They can be acquired and developed through formal or informal training.

12. What is Knowledge? Knowledge is, simply, what you know. You can acquire knowledge through education or training.

13. Creating a Strength When you enhance a talent by adding the right skills and useful knowledge, you have created a strength.

14. Yearning Rapid Learning Flow What kinds of activities are you naturally drawn to? What kinds of activities do you seem to pick up on quickly? In what activities did the “steps” just come to you automatically? Five Clues to Talent

15. Glimpses of Excellence Satisfaction During what activities have you had moments of subconscious excellence, “How did I do that?” What activities give you a kick, either while doing them or immediately after finishing them, “When can I do that again?” Five Clues to Talent

16. Putting It Simply People don’t change that much. Don’t waste time trying to put in what was left out. Try to draw out what was left in. That is hard enough. First, Break All The Rules

17. Leadership Leadership is a process whereby an individual influences a group of individuals to achieve a common goal. “A leader is someone who can get things done through other people.” Warren Buffett

18. Leaders Leaders stay true to who they are – and then make sure they have the right people around them.

19. Non-Talents • Always seem to be a struggle. • Practice does not make it perfect. • Harmless if does not play a role in your life. • Becomes a weakness when you try to use it.

20. Non-Talents—What do you do? • Manage, don’t FIX • If you can avoid using them, then do so! • Use support systems • Complementary partnering • Leverage your talents

21. The “Weakness-Prevention” Assumptions • “You can learn or do anything if you just try hard enough” • “You have the greatest room for growth in your areas of greatest weakness”

22. Weakness A lesser talent becomes a weakness only when you try to use it. Whenever possible, avoid using your areas of lesser talent.

23. Strengths-Building:The Right Assumptions • Some behaviors can be learned. Many are nearly impossible to learn. There are differences between talent, skills, and knowledge. • The best in a role delivers the same outcomes, but can use different behaviors. • Weakness-fixing prevents failure. Strengths-building leads to success.

24. Spiritual Gifts Your spiritual gifts help you find what the ministry is that God wants to see you accomplish. Your talents are God’s way of showing you how you will accomplish it.

25. Discovering Spiritual Gifts Help your congregation discover their individual Spiritual Gifts and their talents. Doing so will create a powerful combination as discovering Spiritual Gifts defines the outcome and discovering talents defines the steps.

26. Invest in Your Strengths If you spend your life trying to be good at everything, you will never be great at anything. While our society encourages us to be well-rounded, this approach inadvertently breeds mediocrity.

27. Find Your Leadership Strengths “I’ve never met an effective leader who wasn’t aware of his talents and working to sharpen them.” Wesley Clark NATO Supreme Allied Commander (former)

28. Focus When we focus on our talents, we are more effective at our tasks and roles. We are also more successful, happy and fulfilled.

29. StrengthsFinder® Themes Achiever Activator Adaptability Analytical Arranger Belief Command Communication Competition Connectedness Consistency Context Deliberative Developer Discipline Empathy Focus Futuristic Harmony Ideation Includer Individualization Input Intellection Learner Maximizer Positivity Relator Responsibility Restorative Self-Assurance Significance Strategic Woo

30. Individualization I am intrigued by the differences between people Harmony I hope no one has a disagreement Communication What stories do I have? Relator I hope I get to spend time with a person I know well Harmony Individualization Empathy How is each personfeeling? Communication Relator Responsibility I will complete this by Friday Includer I wonder if anyone is feeling left out? Empathy Includer Responsibility

31. Positivity Maximizer Woo Competition Command Developer • Clear it • Confrontation to resolution Command • Maximizer • Polish the pearl • The very best it can be • Developer • Help others grow • Their growth is your fuel

32. Achiever Activator Belief Significance Discipline Self-Assurance Adaptability Focus Restorative • Achiever • Inside out push • Everyday starts at zero • Keeps you moving • Self-Assurance • Inner certainty • Robust • Belief • Be of service • Altruistic • Work must matter • Significance • Outside in pull • Craving for significance • Keeps you reaching

33. Analytical Arranger Deliberative Connectedness Consistency Futuristic Learner Ideation Input Intellection Context Strategic Thinking • Analytical • “Prove it” • “Show me the numbers” • Context • “How did we get here?” • Back to the blueprints • Futuristic • “There’s got to be a better world” • Always projecting • Input • “Wow that’s interesting”! • Inquisitive • Like to collect things/ideas • Ideation • In love with ideas • A new perspective • A new connection • A new concept • Arranger • The present is precious • “There’s got to be a better way”

34. Humor

35. The Power of Being Called When you discover your talents and link those talents with your passion, there is no telling what God can accomplish through you.

36. Leadership that Lasts Perhaps the ultimate test of a leader is not what you are able to do in the “here and now” – but instead what continues to grow long after you’re gone.

37. Why Do We Need a Formal System to Identify and Communicate about Strengths? • Helps identify and quantify attributes that can be considered subjective. • Provides a language / tool to discuss strengths and weaknesses. • Creates a science to support or deny self-perception.

38. Present or Engaged? Present… or Engaged…

39. From Doing to Being To become healthy again, the Church needs to stop doing and start being. We need to stop focusing on institutional preservation and instead focus on the basics and what it means to be the church.

40. Involvement and Engagement Involvement is not engagement. Involvement is what you do, in and for your church. Engagement is how you feel about your church. Engagement is all about emotions.

41. What is Engagement? • Engagement is the “emotional bond” or “attachment” that members develop with the church during repeated, ongoing positive interactions. This bond goes beyond a single moment in time and is instead, defined by the enduring behaviors, attitudes, actions and heart of the church and its members. • Or, simply put, when members are engaged, they are emotionally connected to the church, passionate about its mission and service, as well as seamlessly aligned with the church’s purpose and direction.

42. What is Engagement? Engagement describes a sense of belonging to a “family” that stems from one’s experience of making a meaningful contribution to an organization and realizing the value in it. Church engagement is typically expressed in four themes: 1. life satisfaction 2. willingness to invite a friend to church 3. community service 4. financial giving

43. “Let’s hit the door as soon as the pastor has finished” “Our church is really going in the wrong direction” ACTIVELY DISENGAGED NOT ENGAGED Three Member Types “What a great experience, how do I get more involved” 29% 54% 17% ENGAGED

44. Engaged Members • These members are loyal and have a strong psychological connection to their church. • They are more spiritually committed, more likely to invite friends, family members, and coworkers to church events and give more both financially and in commitment of time.

45. Not Engaged Members These members may attend regularly, but they are not psychologically connected to their church. Their connection to the church is more social than spiritual. They give moderately but not sacrificially and they may do a minimal amount of volunteering in the community. They are less likely to invite others and more likely to leave.

46. Actively Disengaged Members These members usually show up only once or twice a year, if at all. They are on the membership rolls, and can tell you what church they belong to -- but may not be able to name the pastor. In general, they are unhappy with their church and insist on sharing that unhappiness with just about everyone.

47. Why does Engagement matter? Spiritual Health Spiritual Commitment Member Engagement + =

48. Indicators of Spiritual Health Life Satisfaction I am completely satisfied with my life. Inviting In the last month, I have invited someone to participate in my congregation/parish. Serving How many volunteer hours a week do you give to help and serve others in your community? Giving How much have you given to further the church’s mission?

49. Why does Engagement matter? • Engaged members: • are nearly three times as likely to be extremely satisfied with their lives. • are more than ten times as likely to invite friends to their faith community events. • volunteer more than two hours per week in their communities. • give up to three times more money to their faith communities. • don’t burn out; they only become stronger, more energized and more engaged.

50. Why does Engagement matter? • Engaged churches: • Engaged churches reach out to people and make them feel valued. Provide clear expectations for members and clear expectations on what they can expect from their church. • They let members know their opinions count and that their participation is important.