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Abuse Awareness

Abuse Awareness. …in 10 Minutes. What is child abuse?. There are 4 forms of abuse that affect children Physical abuse Sexual abuse Emotional abuse Neglect. What is Physical Abuse?.

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Abuse Awareness

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  1. Abuse Awareness …in 10 Minutes

  2. What is child abuse? There are 4 forms of abuse that affect children • Physical abuse • Sexual abuse • Emotional abuse • Neglect

  3. What is Physical Abuse? • Physical Abuse - Any non-accidental human act that results in physical pain or injury to a child - whether or not it leaves a cut or wound, or a mark or a bruise. Physically abusive behavior ranges from slapping, pushing, shoving, punching, kicking, and biting to more severe forms like choking, severe spanking, beating, hitting with an object, burning, stabbing, and shooting.

  4. What is Sexual Abuse? • Sexual Abuse - The exploitation of a child or any sexual intimacy forced on a child for the sexual stimulation or gratification of another person. Child sexual abuse includes exploiting a child who is not capable of consent nor resisting coercive threats or bribes. Sexual abuse may or may not involve physical contact. Examples include exposing genitals, displaying pornographic materials, making obscene phone calls, requesting sexual activity, fondling breasts – buttocks - or genitals; sexual intercourse; oral and anal sex.

  5. What is Emotional Abuse? • Emotional Abuse – controlling a child through words, threats, and fear, or destroying a child’s self-worth through harassment, threats, and deprivation. Emotional abuse weakens a child’s mental and physical ability to resist, cuts off his or her contacts with others, and causes a gradual loss of self esteem - all of which reinforce a sense of helplessness and dependence on the abuser.

  6. What is Neglect? • Physical Neglect - Not doing what one is supposed to be doing to meet the physical needs of someone in his or her care. Neglect interferes with or prevents a child’s normal development.

  7. Which form of abuse is most frequently reported? • Neglect is the most frequently reported form of abuse in nearly every state and province. • Neglect is also the form of abuse most often substantiated by civil authorities.

  8. What are the reasons why neglect is most frequently reported? • Neglect is visible • Neglect occurs in impoverished families who are noticed by government agencies • Neglect is easier to report because of our concern for hungry and homeless children • Offenders & victims of neglect are not as stigmatized • Neglect results in fewer and less harsh consequences • Programs are available to prevent neglect

  9. Which form of abuse is least likely to be reported? • Sexual Abuse is least likely to be reported.

  10. Why is sexual abuse least likely to be reported? • Shameful and humiliating to the victim • Sexual offender is known to the child and probably to the reporter, too • Fear that the offender will be prosecuted and face severe consequences • Denial that the offender could commit abuse • Difficult to prove without witnesses

  11. Which form of abuse most often occurs at church? • Sexual abuse

  12. How does a child become a victim at church? • A predator grooms the child to prepare him or her for abuse. What does the grooming process look like?

  13. Emotional Grooming Steps In The Process 1. Selects a youth 2. Shows favoritism 3. Gains confidence of the parents 4. Drives a wedge between the youth & parents 5. Becomes an ally of the child/teenager 6. Slowly initiates abuse or inappropriateness 7. Confusion, distrust, betrayal solidify the abuse

  14. The following are signs of abuse in a school-age child • Exhibiting adult-pleasing behaviors, striving for perfection, acting miserable if he or she fails • Hostility and distrust of adults, mood swings and irritability, violent disruptions • Acting out by hoarding food and toys, lying, stealing, assaulting • Hyper-vigilance; excessively and suspiciously watching other people; easily startled

  15. The following are signs of abuse in a teenager • Sexually provocative or asexual behavior; denial of body changes and sexual development; for females, seeking affection from older adult males • Experimentation with drugs and alcohol • Cruelty to animals, bullying younger children • Disturbed eating and sleeping habits • Truancy or declining school performance • Depression, self-isolation, withdraw from peers

  16. The following are signs of child abuse in a person now an adult • Inability to trust other adults • Difficulty experiencing intimacy with a spouse • Acting out by having affairs • Use of drugs or alcohol • Flashbacks and nightmares • Refusing to have contact with family members or not allowing children contact with family members • Depression, suicidal gestures

  17. What role does alcohol play in abuse incidents? • Alcohol does not cause a person to become abusive. • Alcohol does reduce a person’s ability to form good judgment ; it reduces a person’s ability to delay impulsive behavior. • Alcohol also blocks out internal prohibitions that might prevent abusive behavior. • Alcohol causes black outs during which the abuser does not recall his or her actions.

  18. What role does pornography play in abuse incidents? • Pornography encourages the offender to view the victim as an object and thereby de-personalizes the experience so it seems less harmful. • Pornography conditions the victim to view sexual activity as normal and pleasant -leading the victim to believe sexual activity should not be feared.

  19. How can we protect children at church? • We should implement a child safety policy. • We should train volunteers and staff who work with youth to become aware of abuse. • We should teach children to discern harmful behavior and to encourage reporting of abuse

  20. We protect youth by screening workers.The recommended steps of screening are: • Application • References • Interview • Criminal background check • Finger printing

  21. In one sentence, can you describe the abuse reporting law in your state or province? • Generally speaking, either a person with a reasonable suspicion of child abuse is legally responsible to or mandated to report; or, a person with a reasonable suspicion is permitted to report the matter . This is true even if the reporter believes another person has already reported the matter to the civil authorities.

  22. Describe the responsibility of a mandated reporter? • A mandated reporter must report a reasonable suspicion of child abuse to children’s protective services or the police. • A mandated reporter who fails to report a reasonable suspicion may be subject to a civil penalty, a misdemeanor charge, or may face civil action if the alleged offender re-offends.

  23. Can you name at least 3 elements of a child safety policy? • Philosophy of preventing abuse • Definitions of abuse • Education policies • General policies • Discipline policies • Supervision policies • Screening policies • Reporting policies • Retention policies

  24. If a child reports to a reasonable suspicion of abuse, what should you do first? • Tell the child’s parents, or • Call the pastor for advice, or • Take the child aside and ask questions, or • Locate the church’s child safety policy

  25. What did you decide and why? • It might be too late to find the church’s policy • Parents should be notified after the civil officials are contacted • The Pastor will likely be surprised, feel torn as you do, or may not know what to do So, the best answer may be to gather more information and report what you have learned to the experts at Children Protective Services or the local police.

  26. Despite everything you’ve learned… • Because introducing a child safety policy disrupts a church’s culture of security, you can expect some resistance. Change is difficult! How should we look at introducing change into our church?

  27. Acknowledge the Six Steps of Change • Precontemplator • Contemplation • Preparation • Action • Maintenance • Relapse Credit to James Prochaska & Carlos DiClemente

  28. Precontemplator • Not currently considering change. “Ignorance is bliss.”

  29. Contemplation • Ambivalent about change. “Sitting on the fence.”

  30. Preparation • Have some experience with change and are trying to change. “Testing the waters.”

  31. Action • Begin new behaviour and continue for 6 months.

  32. Maintenance • Continue commitment to sustaining new behaviour. Post – 6 months to 5 years.

  33. Relapse • Resumption of old behaviours.

  34. Which step best describes your church? • Precontemplator? • Contemplation? • Preparation? • Action? • Maintenance? • Relapse?

  35. What tools do you still need to move forward? • An education event? • Consultation with an abuse prevention expert? • A worship service centered around family relationships, abuse prevention, healthy power and control, etc? • A child safety policy? • Forming a Safety Committee?

  36. Who can help you move forward? • Local Safe Church Committee • Classis Safe Church Team • Denominational Safe Church Ministry • Other local resource • Other classis resource • Other non-denominational resource

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