Order of family members, Happy wife, happy family, problems caused by world or

1. Disciple Building Sharing A77 Order of family members, Happy wife, happy family, problems caused by world order, God's family order, God's hand

2. Preface • A country or society has elders and inferiorities. This order determines who has the power to determine the direction of the society or the country. The same order at home will be the same. Such order decisions will have far-reaching consequences. Influence, so in this article we will talk about what path most families will take if they do not follow God’s design, what impact they will have, and how to walk God way that He has prepared for us. This is not only leading to the family Harmony, children also have a good example. That can have a good faith inheritance

3. Happy wife, happy family • Happy wife happy family is just a popular language nowadays. It is not only the situation of people in the world, but also many believers who take this sentence as the motto of family life. Under this situation, what is the current family order? Because the role of a woman is to raise children, not to raise adults, so the nature of the wife is to make the children happy. However how can children know the world? They can’t know. As a result, there is a little emperor in the family. So the first order in the family is child , wife second, and husband sits at the last

4. Problems caused by the above world order • High divorce rate • Young people’s first job is particularly hard • Young people don't want to get married • Young people don’t have children after they get married • Young people depend on their parents financially for a long time • Unwilling to enter the second marriage after divorce • Most people have almost asexual marriages

5. GOD’s family order • 1Cor. 11:3 “But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.” • Christ is the head of everyone; • Man is the head of a woman • From this verse, we know that this is a family order established by God. Men are to lead women. But before this can happen, everyone must submit to Jesus Christ. If this condition is not established, There is no way to achieve the second condition, because

6. GOD’s family order • Gen. 3:16 “To the woman He said: "I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children; Your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you."” • It can be seen from this verse that a woman is born with a desire to control her husband. This will inevitably lead to a serious split between husband and wife, but God means that the man is the head. And only God is the head, then, this curse can be lifted

7. GOD’s teaching • Eph. 5:25 “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,” • Eph. 5:26 “that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word,” • Eph. 5:27 “that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.” • Of course, it’s not costless for a husband to be a headman. The above scriptures tell him how to do it.

8. GOD’s teaching • 1Pet. 3:7 “Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.” • Husbands, likewise, dwell with her, since she is a weaker vessel

9. GOD’s teaching • 1Cor. 7:4 “The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. ” • A59 Toil and bear heavy burdens, What are hard and heavy burdens, examples of hard and heavy burdens - sex Why do you work hard and bear the burden, avoid falling into the burden of hard work ppp • https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2021/06/a59-toil-and-bear-heavy-burdens-what.html

10. GOD’s hand • Proverbs 14:1 The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down. • John. 16:21 “A woman, when she is in labor, has sorrow because her hour has come; but as soon as she has given birth to the child, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a human being has been born into the world. ” • When God makes a woman give birth, it will be very hard, but after giving birth, she is very happy. God also gives the woman the work of building the home, whether to build the family or demolish it with her own hands.

11. Choose disaster or blessing • Proverbs 18:21 The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit. • Proverbs 25:24 Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. • God gives women a brisk tongue. Generally speaking, women speak three times as much as men, so women can bless their lives by speaking, or they will become annoying people because of speaking. It depends on whether we are speaking life or not.

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