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This article explores the critical distinction between discipline and punishment in child development. While discipline employs proactive, natural consequences that build responsibility and reinforce inner values, punishment often relies on arbitrary, adult-imposed consequences that may instill obedience through fear. We will discuss methods such as Life Space Crisis Intervention (LSCI) and plans for progress designed to clarify distortions, promote awareness, and foster choice and consequence understanding. Empowering children through discipline equips them with essential life skills and enhances their social abilities.
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Proactive Reactive Discipline VS. Punishment
Proactive Natural consequences Reactive Arbitrary. Adult-imposed consequences Discipline VS. Punishment
Proactive Natural consequences Teach responsibility Reactive Arbitrary. Adult-imposed consequences Teach Obedience Discipline VS. Punishment
Proactive Natural consequences Teach responsibility Uses inner values Reactive Arbitrary. Adult-imposed consequences Teach Obedience Uses threat and punishment Discipline VS. Punishment
Proactive Natural consequences Teach responsibility Uses inner values Affirms positive responses Reactive Arbitrary. Adult-imposed consequences Teach Obedience Uses threat and punishment Seeks faults Discipline VS. Punishment
Proactive Natural consequences Teach responsibility Uses inner values Affirms positive responses Builds on relationship Reactive Arbitrary. Adult-imposed consequences Teach Obedience Uses threat and punishment Seeks faults Withdrawal to control Discipline VS. Punishment
LIFE SPACE CRISIS INTERVENTION (LSCI) To teach- Cause and effect Choice and consequence USE A TIME LINE!
LSCI 1. Instigating situation
LSCI • Instigating situation • Gain the child’s perception of the situation
LSCI • Instigating situation • Gain the child’s perception of the situation • Clarify distortions about what really happened
LSCI • Instigating situation • Gain the child’s perception of the situation • Clarify distortions about what really happened • Plan for progress
LSCI • Instigating situation • Gain the child’s perception of the situation • Clarify distortions about what really happened • Plan for progress • If realistic, Implement, complete, evaluate
LSCI • Instigating situation • Gain the child’s perception of the situation • Clarify distortions about what really happened • Plan for progress • If realistic, Implement, complete, evaluate • If unrealistic, clarify reality, motivation, options, and consequences.
PLANS FOR PROGRESS 1. Imported Problems-management.
PLANS FOR PROGRESS • Imported Problems-management. • Perception Errors-clarify reality.
PLANS FOR PROGRESS • Imported Problems-manage. • Perception Errors-clarify reality. • Delinquent Pride-guilt,empathy.
PLANS FOR PROGRESS • Imported Problems-manage. • Perception Errors-clarify reality. • Delinquent Pride-guilt,empathy. • Impulsivity-inner control.
PLANS FOR PROGRESS • Imported Problems-manage. • Perception Errors-clarify reality. • Delinquent Pride-guilt,empathy. • Impulsivity-inner control. • Poor Social Skills-enhance abilities.
PLANS FOR PROGRESS • Imported Problems-manage. • Perception Errors-clarify reality. • Delinquent Pride-guilt,empathy. • Impulsivity-inner control. • Poor Social Skills-enhance abilities. • Peer Influenced-inner resistance.
CONNECT CLARIFY RESTORE Response Ability Pathways