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Factors That Affect a Person When Choosing a Partner

Factors That Affect a Person When Choosing a Partner. What is the purpose of dating?! Would you know after a few dates if a person was right for you or not? Is there only ONE true partner you were made to be with in this world?. Journal Question Topic: Ideal Mate Date: 11/29/12. Same.

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Factors That Affect a Person When Choosing a Partner

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  1. Factors That Affect a Person When Choosing a Partner

  2. What is the purpose of dating?! • Would you know after a few dates if a person was right for you or not? • Is there only ONE true partner you were made to be with in this world?

  3. Journal QuestionTopic: Ideal Mate Date: 11/29/12 Same REALLY think about what you want in an ideal mate. • Draw a van diagram in your journal and write characteristics of an ideal date/bf/gf on one side, and the other side characteristics of a future husband or wife. The center is for similarities in both. • Now, go over each characteristics you have wrote and put a check next to those you would be willing to give up, circle those you might bend on, and put a start next to those you would never give up in a mate. • Lastly, make a list of things that are “turn-offs” and aspects in a mate you know you definitely do not want or know would not work out in a relationship. Bf/Gf Marriage

  4. #1 The Parents’ Marriage(s) • Traits that you admire about your parents are also traits that you look for in the future. • Dislikable characteristics of your parents are traits that you consider undesirable.

  5. #2 Personalities That Blend • The differences between you and your partner need to be complimentary. • Complimentary means that these traits blend in a way that helps your marriage grow. • REMEMBER: What are the three factors of your personality? • Heredity, Environment and Response to Environments

  6. #3 Shared Interests • The factor that often brings couples together. • Helps build companionship. • Helps keep the marriage (aside from children) fresh and alive.

  7. Cultural Backgrounds Different cultures teach different roles. Celebrations and crises may differ. Religious Beliefs A marriage of two of similar faiths have the greatest chance of success. Affects all areas of a person’s life. #4 Cultural Background/ Religious Beliefs

  8. #5 The Age Factor

  9. #6 Education • Education affects a couple’s communication. • You want to be able to have an intelligent, but not overwhelming conversations with your partner.

  10. #7 Work • #1 place to meet each other. • Work schedules can affect a person’s marriage. • Determining household work may cause conflict too.

  11. #8 Income • Some may argue it as the most important factor. • If worries about financial situations take its place, love may fade. • #1 reason why couple’s argue.

  12. #9 Family Approval • Its been proven that there is a strong relationship between family approval and successful relationships. • In the end, it is your decision who to marry, what your feelings are and beliefs.

  13. #10 Similar and Realistic Expectations • No matter how wonderful you think your marriage may be, it will never be perfect. • Most people’s expectations are TOO HIGH! For life in general and for marriage. • It is important to inform your partner of your wants and needs before you get married. • Without knowing a partner, you may find marriage full of conflict.

  14. Mystery #11 ATTRACTION!!! It doesn’t make the TOP 10 Factors List, but it’s an important thing not to over look. In theory, you are attracted to a person based off the 10 factors alone, but if a couple is not physically attracted to each other even in the slightest… it could be the end of the couple as well.

  15. “Love can bring the most happiness and the most pain.” • Now we will watch clips showing how people are choosing each other. • Use the worksheet to answer how the characters in each clip chose each other. • You may pick #1-#11. • You may reuse factors each skit. • AND each clip may have a few factors in each. • Base you answers off the clip you see, not off the whole movie.

  16. Movie Clips • Titanic http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvoJFlLkXm4 • Notebook (start at 1:20) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0uZjkBRoyo • Meet the Parents http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ke2Ho4JqgsI • Big Fat Greek Wedding (4:25-6:00) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcAL5ljKvqE • Sweet Home Alabama http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILT70PICagI • Yes Man http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtkL0TsSYKk • Legally Blonde (7:00-9:30) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUbD-rHSQHs

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