Why You Should Forget a Breakup and Think About Love

1. Forget breakup think about Love Is there anything that can abstain you from reaching the optimum level of happiness? Well, there’s nothing except a lingering relationship wound that doesn’t seem to let you be you. We’ve been there and felt what you’re going through but you cannot do anything about it because the decision of staying apart has been made and now all you have to do is- look forward. Experiencing the love that you thought was your life went painfully is the truth that needs to be understood and the focused must be brought from your ex to your well-being now. It doesn’t really matter what the circumstances were, or who was right and who was wrong. On the other hand, it is not about things that turned your date into a nightmare or you weren’t able to keep each other happy. The bottom line is that it hurts and that the pain is preventing you from moving forward. Hence, all you need to do is jump on the bandwagon that takes you from coming out of the situation and help you take a brighter look at the world. Time definitely heals your wounds but time also needs time. Hence, below mentioned are some practical ways to come out of your tragic loss and fall in with life all over again.

2. Accept but don’t ponder over it Until the time you don’t accept that it has actually happened, you don’t and you won’t be able to come out of the trauma. You have to accept that he was a part of your life which is not the case anymore. You might have cried as much as you wanted, got upset, showed anger, listened to heartbreaking songs and more, but it has to stop now. In order to move forward, you must leave those shattered memories in the back and take a better look at the future. If you don’t do it, you won’t hurt anyone else- it’ll be you who’ll suffer the pain longer. Hence, let go of what was before and accept it but don’t indulge into the sadness anymore. Let go of everything When I stepped into the relationship, it was too casual for me but with the passage of time, I realized that I had made a world of my own with him. In those nine years of my relationship, I had planned how everything would go on - from our wedding to how our life would be but destiny had a surprise waiting for us. We split!! It took me around a year and a half to move on but I would have been able to do it if I wouldn’t have let go. All those dreams that you had with your partner must be let go with your open arms because

3. they don’t have any place in your life anymore at that moment. What you shouldn’t let go of is the belief that love exists and it will make an entrance in your life again. Stop playing the blame game It is in our basic instincts to play the blame-game no matter what the situation is. We don’t say that it was your fault but take a closer look at what led to your breakup. Was it the person you were in love with or the situation and destiny? Don’t go to people talking about how he ditched you but pen down in a journal your experiences. This will not put the entire blame on your partner or on you but will give you a clearer picture. Meet people and be active All you need to do is divert your mind from all the things that make you feel sad or depressed. It would be great if you meet your friends more often and hang out with them because it makes you feel happier. Shop, jog and sign up for yoga sessions to stay active & lead a healthier lifestyle in order to feel good from within. It is understood that you want to stay all by yourself but staying in your cocoon having your quiet time is not beneficial for you. Hence, gel up with people you find happiness with and stay active. Go for a makeover Just like shopping helps you feel better, the makeover has the same benefits. It is the right time to change yourself for the better. Whether it is your hairstyle, looks or the way you look at life, everything can be transformed to make you a better (happier) person.

4. When you’ll look beautiful, you’ll beautiful from within and that’s exactly what you need at this moment. Fall in love again Love happens not only once but a few more times in your life. All you need to do is fall for somebody all over again and give life an opportunity to make you smile all over again. There’s someone who’ll be glad to have to have you and will cherish every moment with your for the rest of your life. Be hopeful!! Love yourself more and you'll see that new love is coming along soon enough.