How to Save Husband Wife Relationship

1. How to Save Husband Wife Relationship By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

2. What is Husband Wife Disputes And Its Solution? Marriage is believed to be a formal union of man and a woman which is organized by their family and law after which they become man and wife. If two people are getting tied together or should we say getting married, it is important that both of them are of same mentality and have mutual understanding, respect for each other and have enough trust to sustain their marriage. If all these things are present in a marriage, life can just become heaven. However if there is lack of trust, mutual understandings and disrespect toward each other, life can just become living hell. By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

3. Relationship Problem: Communication All relationship problems stem from poor communication, according to Elaine Fantle Shimberg, author of Blending Families. "You can't communicate while you're checking your BlackBerry, watching TV, or flipping through the sports section," she says. * Make an actual appointment with each other, Shimberg says. If you live together, put the cell phones on vibrate, put the kids to bed, and let voicemail pick up your calls. * If you can't "communicate" without raising your voices, go to a public spot like the library, park, or restaurant where you'd be embarrassed if anyone saw you screaming. By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

4. Relationship Problem: Sex Even partners who love each other can be a mismatch, sexually. Mary Jo Fay, author of Please Dear, Not Tonight, says a lack of sexual self-awareness and education worsens these problems. But having sex is one of the last things you should give up, Fay says. "Sex," she says, "brings us closer together, releases hormones that help our bodies both physically and mentally, and keeps the chemistry of a healthy couple healthy.“ * Plan, plan, plan. Fay suggests making an appointment, but not necessarily at night when everyone is tired. Maybe during the baby's Saturday afternoon nap or a "before- work quickie." Ask friends or family to take the kids every other Friday night for a sleepover. "When sex is on the calendar, it increases your anticipation," Fay says. Changing things up a bit can make sex more fun, too, she says. Why not have sex in the kitchen? Or by the fire? Or standing up in the hallway? * Learn what truly turns you and your partner on by each of you coming up with a personal "Sexy List," suggests California psychotherapist Allison Cohen. Swap the lists and use them to create more scenarios that turn you both on. * If your sexual relationship problems can't be resolved on your own, Fay recommends consulting a qualified sex therapist to help you both address and resolve your issues. By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

5. Relationship Problem: Money Money problems can start even before the wedding vows are exchanged. They can stem, for example, from the expenses of courtship or from the high cost of a wedding. The National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC) recommends that couples who have money woes take a deep breath and have a serious conversation about finances. * Don't blame. * Construct a joint budget that includes savings. * Decide which person will be responsible for paying the monthly bills. By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

6. Relationship Problem: Struggles Over Home Chores Most partners work outside the home and often at more than one job. So it's important to fairly divide the labor at home, says Paulette Kouffman-Sherman, author of Dating From the Inside Out. Be organized and clear about your respective jobs in the home, Kouffman-Sherman says. "Write all the jobs down and agree on who does what." Be fair so no resentment builds. Be open to other solutions, she says. If you both hate housework, maybe you can spring for a cleaning service. If one of you likes housework, the other partner can do the laundry and the yard. You can be creative and take preferences into account -- as long as it feels fair to both of you. By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

7. Relationship Problem: Not Making Your Relationship a Priority If you want to keep your love life going, making your relationship a focal point should not end when you say "I "Relationships lose their luster. So make yours a priority," says Karen Sherman, author of Marriage Magic! Find It, Keep It, and Make It Last. * Do the things you used to do when you were first dating: Show appreciation, compliment each other, contact each other through the day, and show interest in each other. * Plan date nights. Schedule time together on the calendar just as you would any other important event in your life. * Respect one another. Say "thank you," and "I appreciate..." It lets your partner know that they matter. do." By Astrologer Vinod Kumar

8. Relationship Problem: Conflict Occasional conflict is a part of life, according to New York-based psychologist Susan Silverman. But if you and your partner feel like you're starring in your own nightmare version of the movie Groundhog Day -- i.e. the same lousy situations keep repeating day after day -- it's time to break free of this toxic routine. When you make the effort, you can lessen the anger and take a calm look at underlying issues. * You and your partner can learn to argue in a more civil, helpful manner, Silverman says. Make these strategies part of who you are in this relationship. * Realize you are not a victim. It is your choice whether you react and how you react. Be honest with yourself. By Astrologer Vinod Kumar