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Seven Keys to Raising Godly Children

Seven Keys to Raising Godly Children. Key #3 : LOVE. Matthew 22:37-40 “love God” “love neighbor” 1 Corinthians 13:4,5 “suffers long…is kind…does not envy…not parade itself…not puffed up…not behave rudely…not seek its own… not provoked…thinks no evil”. Loving One Another.

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Seven Keys to Raising Godly Children

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  1. Seven Keys to Raising Godly Children

  2. Key #3 : LOVE • Matthew 22:37-40 “love God” “love neighbor” • 1 Corinthians 13:4,5 “suffers long…is kind…does not envy…not parade itself…not puffed up…not behave rudely…not seek its own… not provoked…thinks no evil”

  3. Loving One Another • Love enough to Stay Together • Matthew 19:9 • Children deserve the security of knowing their home will always be there • What troubled marriages need is not divorce but to learn to get along

  4. Love Enough to Learn to Treat One Another Right • Titus 2:4-5 • Learn “to love their husbands, to love their children” • Ephesians 5:25 “husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church…” • Ephesians 5:28,29 “husbands love wives as own flesh • Ephesians 5:33 “love wife” “wife respects her husband”

  5. Love Enough to Show Affection • 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 • Husband & Wife need to Speak & Act Affectionately • Do you love your wife / husband? • Did you hug & kiss & hold hands when first married? • What’s so hard about it now? • IF you Do Love, SAY SO & SHOW IT

  6. Encourage Children Whenever Possible • Colossians 3:21 “do not provoke your children” • Avoid Humor that Frustrates, Discourages or Angers • Avoid Belittling Childish Mistakes • Set Expectations Within Reach of Child’s Ability • Express Appreciation for Accomplishments

  7. Determine Rules & Punishment for Child’s Good • Make rules for the good of the whole group • Some children think being a parent means you get to do whatever you want! • NOT SO! • 1 Corinthians 13:3 “not seek own …is not selfish” • Matthew 7:12 “do unto others” • Colossians 3:21

  8. Exercise Punishment For the Good of the Child • Hebrews 12:5-11 “chastens those He loves” • Proverbs 13:24 “He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.” • Proverbs 23:13,14 Proverbs 23:13-14 NKJV 13 Do not withhold correction from a child, …14 You shall beat him with a rod, And deliver his soul from hell.” • Child needs to learn to act properly and respect authority

  9. Consider Some Guidelines Regarding Making Rules & Punishing in Love Never use your authority to get personal vengeance on the child Never punish the child in a fit of uncontrolled anger- Ephesians 4:26 Never use authority just to satisfy a desire for power When you make Rules or Punish your child, are you acting in Love for your child’s good?

  10. Willingly Sacrifice for the Children’s Good • John 3:16 “God so loved the world” • Luke 10:25-37 Good Samaritan • 1 John 3:16-18 Imitate example of Jesus & show love to others • Children Need Our Time & Attention • Fathers specifically should take time for their children- 1 Timothy 5:8; Matthew 16:26 • What sacrifices are you making to give your children the time and attention they need?

  11. Children Need Their Mother • Titus 2:4,5 – “workers at home” ASV “homemakers” NKJV • Proverbs 31:10-31 • Real Estate – vs. 16 buys a field, sells it, plants a vineyard • Clothing Industry – vs. 24 makes linen garments, sells them to the merchants • She does ALL of this & still cares for her family

  12. Learn to Show Affection to Children • Appreciate Children as Blessings From God- • Genesis 33:5 • Psalm 127:3-5 • Psalm 128:3,4 • Titus 2:4 • How often do you really thank God for your children? • Do you consider them a blessing or a burden? • Do you act like you appreciate them?

  13. Learn to Show Affection to Children • Show Affection by Words & by Physical Contact • Fathers especially need to learn to express love • Genesis 33:4 –embraced, kissed & wept • Genesis 45:15; 46:29 • Genesis 48:10 –kissed & embraced • 1 Kings 19:20 Elisha kissed father and mother goodbye • Luke 15:20 –embraced & kissed son • Romans 12:15 – rejoice / weep

  14. 1 Corinthians 13:13 NKJV 13 “And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”

  15. Is Your Family Characterized by Love?

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