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VALIDATION. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao. “ It seems there is no one Newman can ’ t make smile! ”. What were things he could not control?. How PEOPLE reacted & felt The kinds of people that came to be validated The weather, the amount he got paid, etc….
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VALIDATION http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao
“It seems there is no one Newman can’t make smile!” What were things he could not control? • How PEOPLE reacted & felt • The kinds of people that came to be validated • The weather, the amount he got paid, etc…. What were the things he could control? • His ATTITUDE • Working with his TALENTS (photography) • His RESPONSE
What were people really coming to get validated for?
EFFICIENCY Good or Bad?
What are some fundamental emotional needs of all human beings? Love Appreciation Respected Understood Valued ETC.
Emotional Bank Account • Deposit • Withdrawal 2 types: • Personal Bank Account (PBA) • Relationship Bank Account (RBA)
“The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are.”(Stephen R. Covey)
“If you ever have something good to say, don’t let that thought just rot, say it. Don’t wait until people are dead to give them flowers.” --Sean Covey