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Habit 1- Be proactive. Discuss. What are the differences between the two sides of the paper? How do these qualities play out in our lives? Which side of the paper are you on right now? . Opposites. Love Peace Success Security Humble Kindness Honest Valuable Patient. Hate War
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Discuss • What are the differences between the two sides of the paper? • How do these qualities play out in our lives? • Which side of the paper are you on right now?
Opposites • Love • Peace • Success • Security • Humble • Kindness • Honest • Valuable • Patient • Hate • War • Bankruptcy • Insecurity • Arrogant • Mean • Dishonest • Cheap • Impatient
Focus on the Positive • Act, Don’t React • Think Before You Speak • You Can’t Control Others, You Can Only Control Yourself • Push the Pause Button • Focus on Solutions and Options, Not Problems and barriers
Pg. 52 • What is victimitis ? • What are the dangers of victimitis?
Habit 1 Be Proactive Teenagers are the product of their environment, upbringing, and choices. Are their choices proactive or reactive? They need to take responsibility for their choices and their life.
CIRCLE OF NO CONTROL Birthplace CIRCLE OF CONTROL What other people say and do Ourselves Attitudes Weather Choices & Responses Parents
Scenarios • Scenario #1-- How will you proactively respond to this situation? • Your boss is talking to another employee when you come in to punch your time card. You have reason to believe they are talking about you. This makes you feel uncomfortable and mad. • Scenario #2-- How will you proactively respond to this situation? • A close friend gets to go on a senior trip, all expenses paid. You are jealous they do not have to pay a dime. You do not think they deserve to have their parents pay for everything. You consider not going because you have to pay for part of your trip and do not think it is fair.
Scenarios • Scenario #3-- How will you proactively respond to this situation? • At work, you developed a new way to organize the filing system that makes it easier for the office staff to find documents. Your supervisor takes all the credit. • Scenario #4-- How will you proactively respond to this situation? • You are a nurse. The patient you are working with is ungrateful, rude, is always finding fault in everything you do, and makes your life miserable.
You have control over three things: what you think, what you say, and how you behave. To make a change in your life, you must recognize these gifts are the most powerful tools you possess in shaping for form of your life.” --Sonya Friedman