International Magis Society (2010) Presented by : Nigel Lo OUTSTANDING
IT ALL BEGAN WITH INSPIRATION • A dream never fulfilled. • The Dark world of Sorrow. • A New Hope. • A Promise.
FULFILLING MY PROMISE • Tears would mean nothing in the end.... • I remembered what grandpa always wanted. • I made a promise to make him proud. • I had to live that promise but how? • I had to identify my successes. • I had to educate myself.....
IT DOESN’T MATTER WHO YOU WERE BEFORE... • It matters that you have a dream. • It matters that you have a goal. • It matters you have hope in your heart. • It matters that you think of a glass half full. • It matters that you desire change in your life. • It matters you see yourself as a shining star.
SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE SAY SOMETHING IN COMMON..... • “I’m no different from anyone else. I just wasn’t willing to settle for anything less than what I am capable of...” • “I demanded for more than what others would expect of me. I gave my best at everything I did. I also over do things. That’s how excellence is achieved.....”
BELIEVE IT OR NOT, THERE WAS A TIME WHEN.... • Bill Gates couldn’t type...... • Oprah Winfrey couldn’t sign her name.... • David Beckham couldn’t walk properly....
EARNING A REPUTATION • What is reputation? The way people perceive you as an individual. • Good deeds spreads good words! • Help others in need. Inspire them. • Dedicate your time to improve yourself.
STOP WORRYING, START LIVING • Take comfort in the law of averages. • Ask yourself: What’s the worst that can happen? • Prepare yourself mentally to accept the worst. • Work calmly to improve upon the worst.
6 SELF CONFIDENCE BOOSTERS • Don’t view yourself as inferior to others • Talk to other people. • Identify your success. • Stick to your principles. • Be Grateful. • Be Positive. • Fake it.
PUBLIC SPEAKING Scared? Practice makes Perfect!! • Use “hot buttons” effectively. • Allows you to run for office in organizations. • A way to publicize yourself to strangers. • A way to earn a good reputation. • Speak for a noble cause.
GOAL ACHIEVING • Identify your goal. • Want desperately to succeed. • Plan your time schedule. • Be Grateful & Be Positive. • Be focused & Be disciplined. • Surround yourself with optimistic people. • Work hard towards your goal. • Visualize your success.
LETTING OTHERS SEE YOU AS A SOLUTION TO THEIR PROBLEMS... • Become genuinely interested in other people. • Be a Good Listener. • Encourage people to talk about themselves. • Tell them you understand & that you care... • Tell them personal stories of how you overcame a problem in your life. • Let your good reputation prove your credibility • Show honest & sincere sympathy.
INSTILLING CONFIDENCE IN OTHERS • Be generous in your praises. • Identify the other person’s talent. • Encourage others to achieve their dream. • Wash away negativity from their mindset. • Lend a hand to help them achieve their goal.
THE LEADER IN YOU • Leadership is important in boosting self esteem. • Being a leader makes you an outstanding person. • A leader must master effective communication. • Responsibility, Focus, Discipline, Honesty, Integrity
Every successful person worked hard for it! Develop a desperate & driving desire to succeed, win & be outstanding! GOOD LUCK & BEST WISHES!!