Lathrop Intermediate School Home of the Spartans

1. Lathrop Intermediate SchoolHome of the Spartans #RelationshipGoals College Prep Lesson Wednesday, February 15, 2017 Safety Respect Responsibility

2. December and January Yearbook Raffle Winners December: Brenda Gonzalez January: Elena Arechiga You have won a 2015-2016 yearbook. Please see Ms. Kim in the front office at the end of the day. If you would like to enter to win a 2015-2016 yearbook, you may enter the raffle for 1 Pride Ticket at the Student Store Safety Respect Responsibility

3. Since yesterday was Valentine’s Day, some of us may have relationships on our minds…Before we talk about relationships, let’s define what a relationship is. Safety Respect Responsibility

4. RELATIONSHIP re·la·tion·ship rəˈlāSH(ə)nˌSHip/ noun • the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. Safety Respect Responsibility

5. What kinds of relationships are there? There are a variety of relationships we can have with other people. There are four basic types of relationships: • Family Relationships • Friendships • Casual Relationships • Romantic Relationships Safety Respect Responsibility

6. Family Relationship We first learn about loving and caring relationships from our families. Family is defined as a domestic group of people with some degree of kinship – whether through blood, marriage, or adoption. Safety Respect Responsibility

7. Friendship Everyone needs friends, and you probably have always had at least one. A friend is defined as a person you know well and regard with affection, trust, and respect. Safety Respect Responsibility

8. Casual Relationships Causal relationships are formed with people you encounter every day – anyone who is not a friend, romantic relationship, or family member. Safety Respect Responsibility

9. Romantic Relationship In thinking about the different types of relationships, it is important to realize that you can have an intimate relationship with anyone. An intimate relationship is one in which you can truly be yourself with someone who you respect and are respected by in return. It is an emotional connection Safety Respect Responsibility

10. What are some components to a healthy relationship? Communication Trust Respect Safety Respect Responsibility

11. Communication Conflict Resolution Skills How to Deal with Disagreements 1. Define the problem clearly from both points of view. 2. State what you can agree on. 3. Brainstorm together over all of the possible alternatives to the problem. 4. State what changes each of you is personally willing to make to arrive at a solution. 5. Summarize the best solution you have considered. Safety Respect Responsibility

12. Trust Trust is an extremely important aspect to a healthy relationship! Safety Respect Responsibility

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14. Respect On a practical level respect includes taking someone's feelings, needs, thoughts, ideas, wishes and preferences into consideration. It means taking all of these seriously and giving them worth and value. In fact, giving someone respect seems similar to valuing them and their thoughts, feelings, etc. It also includes acknowledging them, listening to them, being truthful with them, and accepting their individuality. Safety Respect Responsibility

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17. Activity If time permits:Write a quick note to someone you have a good relationship with. Tell them what you appreciate about them and your relationship.You can write to a friend, a classmate, a teacher, a family member or loved one. Safety Respect Responsibility

18. Resources Sutter Health http://www.pamf.org/teen/abc/types/ www.fgcu.edu/caps/files/relationships.ppt Safety Respect Responsibility