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Not Alone

Not Alone. Consent and Healthy Relationships. Statistics. Among college women, 9 out of 10 victims of rape and sexual assault know their offender. For about every 1000 women attending college/university, there are 35 incidents of rape each academic year.

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Not Alone

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  1. Not Alone Consent and Healthy Relationships

  2. Statistics • Among college women, 9 out of 10 victims of rape and sexual assault know their offender. • For about every 1000 women attending college/university, there are 35 incidents of rape each academic year. (Fisher, B.S., Cullen, F.T., & Turner, M.G. (2000)) • 1 in 20 women (almost 5%) reported being reported being raped in college since the beginning of the year (about 7 months). • 72% of those rapes happened while the victims were so intoxicated they were unable to consent or refuse. (Mohler-Kuo, M., Dowdall, G., Koss, M., & Wechsler, H. (2004)) • 1 in 5 women are survivors of rape. 1 in 2 women and 1 in 5 men were victims of some form of sexual assault in their lifetime. (National Center for Injury Prevention and Control. (2010))

  3. What is sexual assault? Sexual assault is forced or coerced sexual contact without consent. (No More Campaign, 2015) Sexual Assault PSA and Consent PSA

  4. Coerced Forced Under the Influence Enthusiastic Ongoing Clearly Given What is consent? Consent is… Consent isn’t… Not Sure? Ask!

  5. What defines a healthy relationship? A healthy functional intimate relationship is based on equality and respect, not power and control. Think about how you treat (and want to be treated by) someone you care about. Campbell Counseling Services

  6. Honesty Communication Fairness Economic Partnership Shared Responsibility Shared Power Respect Trust Intimacy Personal Affection Integrity Non-threatening Behavior Characteristics of a Healthy Relationship Campbell Counseling Services

  7. Coercion and Threats Intimidation Emotional Abuse Isolation Denying and Blaming Using Family and Loved Ones Abusing Authority Using Economics Abuse Characteristics of a Unhealthy Relationship Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Dept.

  8. What questions should you ask yourself to know if you have a healthy relationship? • Do I treat the other person as if he/she is of value? • To what degree am I able to allow myself to be open to what he/she feels? • Do I try to understand the other person, what they say or do? • Is the relationship built on truthfulness, or are there games involved? • Can we talk freely about issues that are important to the relationship? Do we know how to talk so we each are understood and sharing is safe? • Am I mindful of the other person’s needs as well as my own? • To what extent do we like and value the same things? In areas of disagreement, are we able to agree to disagree? • Am I able to maintain my beliefs and sense of self as well as offer my time and attention to the relationship? • To what degree can I let down my barriers and allow the other person to see my perceived weaknesses, without fear of negative reactions from them? Campbell Counseling Services

  9. How to get out of a bad relationship: Part 1: Identifying a bad relationship Be your true self Listen to concerns from family and friends Make decisions for yourself Watch out for controlling behavior Measure the trust in the relationship Notice how critical you partner is of you

  10. How to get out of a bad relationship: Part 2: Preparing for a break-up Admit you’re in a bad relationship Arrange a place to go after a break-up Create a plan of action

  11. How to get out of a bad relationship: Part 3: Ending the relationship Plan a time to talk with your partner Tell your partner the relationship is over Put distance between yourself and your new ex

  12. How to get out of a bad relationship: Part 4: Moving on Surround yourself with positive people Release your regrets Forgive yourself Remember who you were before the relationship Ask for help Contact local authorities for protective services WikiHow

  13. Questions?

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