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MARRIAGE

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.” Proverbs 18:22. MARRIAGE. Biblical Guidance Through the. MARRIAGE. “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18. MARRIAGE.

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MARRIAGE

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  1. “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.” Proverbs 18:22 MARRIAGE

  2. Biblical Guidance Through the MARRIAGE

  3. “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18 MARRIAGE

  4. “Loneliness is the first thing that God’s eye named not good” Milton, Tetrachordon

  5. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh” Genesis 2:24 MARRIAGE

  6. “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled” Hebrews 13:4a MARRIAGE

  7. “Needles and pins, needles and pins. When a man marries his trouble begins” J.O. Halliwell, The Nursery Rhymes of England

  8. The Proper Time to Marry “For a young man, not yet, for an old man never at all.” Diogenes Laertius, Bk 6, 237

  9. “Marriage, if one face the truth, is an evil, but a necessary evil” Menander Frag. 651k

  10. “Marriage is always a vice, all that can be done is to excuse it and sanctify it; therefore, it was made a religious sacrament” Jerome, Seldes, pg. 643

  11. Challenges of Marriage “Troubles in the Flesh”

  12. “Troubles in the Flesh” • Those who marry “will have trouble in the flesh” (1 Corinthians 7:28). • “He who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife” (1 Corinthians 7:33) • “She who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband” (1 Corinthians 7:34). • Not sinful love of the world (1 John 2:15-17).

  13. “Troubles in the Flesh” • Financial Issues

  14. “A man should first build a house, then plant a vineyard, then marry” Babylonian Talmud, Sotah, fol. 44a

  15. “Troubles in the Flesh” • Financial Issues • Personality Issues • Sexual Issues

  16. Challenges of Marriage “Troubles in the Flesh” Changing Impressions

  17. “So it came to pass in the morning, that behold, it was Leah. And he said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? Was it not for Rachel that I served you? Why then have you deceived me?” • Genesis 29:25 Jacob & Leah

  18. “It doesn’t much signify whom one marries, for one is sure to find next morning that it was someone else” Samuel Rogers, Table Talk MARRIAGE

  19. Challenges of Marriage “Troubles in the Flesh” Changing Impressions A Lack of Support

  20. “Do you still hold fast to your integrity? Curse God and die!” Job 2:9 MARRIAGE

  21. “The way to have something is to give it away. If you want love, for example, don’t look for it—give it.” Tim LaHaye, How to Be Happy Though Married, pg. 96

  22. Challenges of Marriage “Troubles in the Flesh” Changing Impressions A Lack of Support Temptation to Do Wrong

  23. “For it was so, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned his heart after other gods; and his heart was not loyal to the LORD his God, as was the heart of his father David.” 1 Kings 11:4 MARRIAGE

  24. “Above all, no lady should allow herself to correspond with an intemperate man, with a view to matrimony. She may reform him, but the chances are that her life’s happiness will be completely destroyed by such a union. Better, a thousand times, the single, free and independent maidenhood, than for a woman to trail her life in the dust, and bring poverty, shame, and disgrace on her children, by marrying a man addicted to dissipated habits” John Duncan, Manners and Morals of Long Ago, pg. 17

  25. “The sum of all that makes a just man happy consists in the well choosing of his wife.” Massinger MARRIAGE

  26. Biblical Guidance for Marriage Love Wives as Your Own Body – Ephesians 5:28-29 1 “So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church”

  27. The Husband’s Love of the Wife • Husband is to be the “head of the wife” (Ephesians 5:23). • Not a position of mastery and domination but of service and responsibility. • Begins with the proper attitude. • As Christ “loved the church” (Ephesians 5:25) and “as their own bodies” (Eph. 5:28).

  28. “Where there’s marriage without love, there will be love without marriage.” Benjamin Franklin, Poor Richard’s Almanac 1734

  29. “How to Have a Good Fight” • Keep it Honest, • Keep it Under Control, • Keep it Timed Right, • Keep it Positive, • Keep it Tactful, • Keep it Private, • Keep it Cleaned Up, • Keep it in Mind. • Chuck Swindoll • Strike the Original Match, • pgs. 99-113

  30. Biblical Guidance to Adults Submit to Husbands as to Christ – Ephesians 5:22-24 2 “Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.”

  31. Our Social Customs 1891 “It is the paradise of marriage that the man shall work for the woman; that he alone shall support her, take pleasure in enduring fatigue for her sake, and spare her the hardships of labor, and rude contact with the world.” John Duncan, Manners and Morals of Long Ago “It is a home that man wants, and he doesn’t get that when the woman he weds is merely ornamental. It is a defect of our civilization that women are forced to become breadwinners” (Daphne Dale).

  32. “In the home there must be somebody in charge. Every school needs a principal. Every business needs a manager… There must in every condition be somebody at the head … A wife is to be shielded from some of the blows that must fall in marriage. She is to be shielded from some of the decision making. She has another role to fill, and only she can fill it.” Irvin Lee, Good Homes in a Wicked World pg. 53

  33. Six Keys to a Marital Happiness • Maturity, • Submission, • Love, • Communication, • Prayer, • Christ. • Tim LaHaye • How To Be Happy Though Married, • pgs. 97-127

  34. “All of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for ‘God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble’” 1 Peter 5:5 MARRIAGE

  35. “Submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you” James 4:7 MARRIAGE

  36. “Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much” James 5:16 MARRIAGE

  37. Biblical Guidance to Adults Do Not Deprive One Another – 1 Cor. 7:3-5 3 “Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does…”

  38. Biblical Guidance to Adults Do Not Deprive One Another – 1 Cor. 7:3-5 3 “…Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”

  39. “Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, streams of water in the streets?” Proverbs 5:16 MARRIAGE

  40. “Men should keep their eyes wide open before marriage, and half shut afterward” Mad. Scuderi MARRIAGE

  41. “I have made a covenant with my eyes; Why then should I look upon a young woman?” Job 31:1 MARRIAGE

  42. Do Not Deprive One Another • “It is good for a man not to touch a woman” (7:1b). • “Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband” (7:2). There is no other way which God has provided to satisfy this human need.

  43. “Every man has within him a God-given instinct that is holy and right in its proper use. The same is true of the woman. The instinct that causes a man to be attracted to a woman and a woman to a man helps to make the marriage strong and helps to keep them together.” Irvin Lee, Good Homes in a Wicked World pg. 108

  44. Bessie Patterson, Wisely Train the Younger Women “Do you think you can be a prude with your husband, perhaps drive him to another woman, then claim to be blameless when your marriage has failed? Can such a woman, while denying her husband his rights, pray, or worship acceptably?” (pg. 51).

  45. “After thirty-five a man begins to have thoughts about women; before that age he has feelings” Austin O’Malley Epigram MARRIAGE

  46. Biblical Guidance to Adults Honor Your Wife – 1 Peter 3:7 4 “Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.”

  47. Biblical Guidance to Adults Respect Your Husband – Ephesians 5:33 4 “Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”

  48. “Prescription for a a Superb Marriage” B – Blessing. “Blessing” (Gr. eulogia) means “good words.” E – Edifying. “Edify” (Gr. Oikodomeo) “house-building.” S – Sharing. “…All areas of life—your time, activities, interests and concerns, ideas and innermost thoughts, spiritual walk, family objectives and goals, etc.” T – Touching. “A tender touch tells us that we are cared for. It can calm our fears, soothe pain, bring us comfort, or give us the blessed satisfaction of emotional security” Ed Wheat, Love Life: for Every Married Couple, pgs. 177-184

  49. Biblical Guidance to Adults Marriage is For Life – Romans 7:2 5 “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband.”

  50. “‘For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence,’ Says the LORD of hosts. ‘Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.’” Malachi 2:16 MARRIAGE

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