IWill Therapy

1. IWill Therapy As independent woman; I still felt scared & dominated as daughter in law. Overcame this finally! They are coming again. You should be happy! What kind of a daughter in law and wife are you... you don’t like his parents visiting? And I couldn’t say a word ahead The truth was I was really scared for myself. Though an independent woman; no they didn’t hit me, nor did they yell; but the mental groupism they did, the constant power they had over me, which I couldn’t stop, the constant disruption that would happen, I was scared of it. Anxious and depressed! This had happened too many times and this is what happened as soon as they came this time! 1. You must be busy with work! You don’t even have 1 hour? No just asking (This was 2:00 pm in the day and I had an office on from home of course but then, I went back to work, and yet couldn’t stop thinking of why they don’t get me or care for me or what would they be now thinking of me) 2. Arun has changed so much. Now he fights with me. He was never like this wonder what changed. (This was said when Arun and my sister in law were having an augment, I couldn’t even say what do you mean, was it meant for me? And yet it really hurt me and made me feel so much attacked.. yes an independent woman but still so weak) 3. Arun why can’t you take time out for us... you have really changed so much. Let it be we will be on our own, next time we won’t come. This is no longer our home (what called for this attack, no clue, it was said in my presence and exactly an hour after Arun helped me with some housework... I wouldn’t have read

2. IWill Therapy too much between the lines if it wasn’t done others times too) The daily remarks The partiality towards my husband The sitting together excluding me The telling me what to do The blaming on me without naming me. All of this was happening again. I was again feeling isolated, my work was back to toss, I wasn’t speaking up, I was angry and bitter and fighting with my husband for this. Years had passed and I was still scared of drama, of being attacked, i earned, worked, felt like a dream to everyone else. Inside I was still this weak now depressed and anxious woman. I was choked to be in this home... I joined IWill therapy just to get to speak and Maybe get some help out of this. My therapist at IWill helped me learn 3 things 1. The fear that they would do drama shouldn’t stop me from drawing boundaries 2. The therapy focus had to be in helping me really find a way to mentally completely ignore when they use sarcasm, hidden attacks on me to make me feel bad. On things I couldn’t set boundaries to, I had to learn to completely stop feeling bad about it. I had to make sure I become so less irritated by it: that others lose the motivation to do it or even the effort. 3. I had to ensure I don’t stop doing things I needed to. I needed to excel in my career. I needed to be ok in getting my husband’s help. I needed to spend time with him and this fear, hesitation, and behavior weakness I displayed by getting bullied and then later crying and feeling bad. This had to stop. In Iwill Therapy over the course of some 15 sessions. I learned all these 3 1. I speak and assert in the home as the woman of the house, I don’t lose that place no matter who comes in and goes 2. I don’t get my work to suffer. I make sure me and my husband have the time together and no one takes that away from us! 3. I don’t allow people to make me feel or look bad for being myself, an independent working woman with a mind of her own 4. I don’t even pay attention to things they use as sarcasm. And really they have learnt to do it less and less. Because I do more cool stuff when they become sarcastic or attack. This irritates them rather than me. I respect his family but I am done with being the ridicule, the person who can still be treated so fakely! I am not ok with this anymore, I never was! IWill has just helped me not to be scared, not to be depressed, rather live my life as I want. Visit IWill Therapy For More Details.