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This unit dives deep into the concepts of intimacy and distance within relationships. It defines intimacy, exploring its emotional, physical, and intellectual dimensions alongside shared activities. We examine factors influencing intimacy, including gender differences and cultural influences. Self-disclosure is discussed, highlighting its role in enhancing relationships while acknowledging its risks, such as potential rejection and decreased satisfaction. Alternatives to self-disclosure, guidelines for effective communication, and the importance of context in relationship dynamics are also covered, providing a comprehensive understanding of building and maintaining intimacy.
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Unit Ten Virtual Lecture Intimacy and Distance in Relationships
What is Intimacy? • Webster's definition: “close union, contact, association or acquaintance with another”
Dimensions of Intimacy • Emotional • Physical • Intellectual • Shared Activities
Dimensions of Distance • Withdrawal • Avoidance • Being Reserved • Shortening interaction • Restricting topics • Deception
Influences on Intimacy • Gender – Male vs. Female styles • Cultural Influences
What is self-disclosure? • Must contain personal information about the sender. • The sender must communicate the information verbally. • Another person must be the target of the communication.
What are the benefits of self-disclosure? • Catharsis • Self-clarification • Self-Validation • Reciprocity • Impression Formation • Relationship Enhancement • Moral Obligation • Social Influence • Self-Defense
Risks of Self Disclosure • Rejection • Negative Impression • Decrease in Relational Satisfaction • Loss of Influence • Loss of Control • Hurt the the other person • Increased Awareness
Alternatives to Self-Disclosure • Silence • Lying • To Save Face • To Avoid Conflict or Tensions • To Guide Social Interaction • To Manage Relationships • To Gain Power • To Protect Other Relationships
Other Alternatives • Equivocation • Hinting
Guidelines for Self Disclosure • Is the other person important to you? • Is the risk of disclosing reasonable? • Is the self-disclosure appropriate? • Is it relevant to the situation at hand? • Is the disclosure reciprocated? • Will the effect be constructive? • Is the self-disclosure clear and understandable?
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