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SURVIVAL SIGNALS LISTENING TO YOUR INTUITION

SURVIVAL SIGNALS LISTENING TO YOUR INTUITION. Cheryl L. Wieser Regional Security Officer Western Region Security Office Seattle, WA 206-526-6653. Updated 12/12/2001. FORCED TEAMING. USE OF WORD “WE” ESTABLISH RAPPORT ESTABLISH PREMATURE TUST PROJECTION OF SHARED PREDICAMENT

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SURVIVAL SIGNALS LISTENING TO YOUR INTUITION

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  1. SURVIVAL SIGNALSLISTENING TO YOUR INTUITION Cheryl L. Wieser Regional Security Officer Western Region Security Office Seattle, WA 206-526-6653 Updated 12/12/2001

  2. FORCED TEAMING • USE OF WORD “WE” • ESTABLISH RAPPORT • ESTABLISH PREMATURE TUST • PROJECTION OF SHARED PREDICAMENT • DONE IN A REMOTE OR ISOLATED AREA

  3. CHARM & NICENESS • NOT AN INHERENT ABILITY • “TO CHARM IS TO COMPEL, TO CONTROL BY ALLURE OR ATTRACTION” • NICENESS DOES NOT EQUAL GOODNESS • NICENESS IS A DECISION, NOT A TRAIT • WOMEN ARE EXPECTED TO RESPOND ONLY AND WARMLY TO MEN

  4. TOO MANY DETAILS • TRUTH REQUIRES NO ADDITIONAL DETAILS • REMEMBER THE CONTEXT • A STRANGER APPROACHED YOU • UNSOLICITED CONTACT WAS MADE

  5. THE UNSOLICITED PROMISE • QUESTIONABLE MOTIVE • CONVINCE US OF INTENTION • NO GUARANTES OR COMPENSATION FOR FAILURE • THE PROMISE WILL REFLECT YOUR DOUBT & INTIAL INTUITIVE SIGNAL • SEEKING YOUR TRUST

  6. DISCOUNTING THE WORD “NO” • NEVER NEGOIATE THE WORD “NO” • IN CHOOSING NOT TO HEAR IT, SOMEONE IS ATTEMPTING TO CNTROL YOU • NEGOTIATION PROVIDES POSSIBILITIES

  7. THE INTERVIEW • WILL YOU ENGAGE IN CONVERSATION WITH A STRANGER WHEN YOU’D RATHER NOT? • CAN YOU BE MANIPULATED BY GUILT OR THE FEELING THAT YOU OWE SOMEONE SOMETHING?

  8. THE INTERVIEW • WILL YOU YIELD TO SOMEONE’S WILL OR BE STRENGTHENED WHEN SOMEONE IS TRYING TO CONTROL YOU? • WILL YOU HONOR YOUR INTUITION?

  9. THE ALARM • INTUITION IS ALWAYS RIGHT IN TWO VERY IMPORTANT WAYS: • IT IS ALWAYS IN RESPONSE TO SOMETHING • IT ALWAYS HAS YOUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART

  10. RESOURCE MATERIAL • Gavin DeBecker - “THE GIFT OF FEAR” • National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE • WA State Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-562-6025 • Eastside Domestic Violence Program 1-800-827-8840

  11. RESOURCES • King County Coalition Against Domestic Violence - 206-586-5454 • Domestic Violence Recorded information Line - 206-205-5555 • Domestic Abuse Women’s Network (DAWN) - 206-622-1881 • Asian Counseling & Referral Service 206-695-7610 • Consejo Counseling & Referral Service (Services in Spanish) 206-461-4880

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