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Parenting types. Once children become mobile, parents need to direct their children's behaviour. Introduction into rules and sanctions. Do all parents do this in the same way? No. Baumrind: 2 dimensions of parenting. 2 dimensions of parenting. Parenting types. 1. Nurturance.
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Parenting types • Once children become mobile, parents need to direct their children's behaviour. • Introduction into rules and sanctions. • Do all parents do this in the same way? • No. • Baumrind: 2 dimensions of parenting
2 dimensions of parenting Parenting types 1. Nurturance
2 dimensions of parenting Parenting types 1. Nurturance • Parents high (low) in Nurturance are warm (cold) and emotionally attuned (unattuned) to their children
2 dimensions of parenting Parenting types 1. Nurturance • Parents high (low) in Nurturance are warm (cold) and emotionally attuned (unattuned) to their children 2. Control
2 dimensions of parenting Parenting types 1. Nurturance • Parents high (low) in Nurturance are warm (cold) and emotionally attuned (unattuned) to their children 2. Control • Does the parent demand compliance? How? • Reasoned compliance vs power assertion
2 dimensions of parenting Parenting types 1. Nurturance • Parents high (low) in Nurturance are warm (cold) and emotionally attuned (unattuned) to their children 2. Control • Does the parent demand compliance? How? • Reasoned compliance vs power assertion 4 Parenting Types
Baumrind’s 4 Parenting Types Nurturance High Low High Control Low
Baumrind’s 4 Parenting Types Nurturance High Low • Authoritative • Demanding but responsive. • Reasoned compliance. • Consider child's perspective. • Clear demands. High Control Low
Baumrind’s 4 Parenting Types Nurturance High Low • Authoritative • Demanding but responsive • Reasoned compliance • Consider child's perspective • Clear demands • Authoritarian • Demanding but unresponsive • Forced compliance. • Consider own perspective. • Clear demands. High Control Low
Baumrind’s 4 Parenting Types Nurturance High Low • Authoritative • Demanding but responsive • Reasoned compliance • Consider child's perspective • Clear demands • Authoritarian • Demanding but unresponsive • Forced compliance. • Consider own perspective. • Clear demands. High Control Permissive Responsive but undemanding Consider child's perspective Few demands/ Feel powerless Low self-esteem Low
Baumrind’s 4 Parenting Types Nurturance High Low • Authoritative • Demanding but responsive • Reasoned compliance • Consider child's perspective • Clear demands • Authoritarian • Demanding but unresponsive • Forced compliance. • Consider own perspective. • Clear demands. High Control Uninvolved Unresponsive & undemanding Neglectful Permissive Responsive but undemanding Consider child's perspective Few demands/ Feel powerless Low self-esteem Low
Are parenting types associated with certain child outcomes? • Yes
Children of authoritative parents • Understand and accept social rules • (1) sociable • (2) self-regulating • (3) positive affect • (4) strong self-concept
Children of authoritarian parents • Social rules understood but not internalized. • (1) situational compliance • (2) poor emotional functioning: withdrawn • (3) poor social functioning: lack of spontaneity
Children of permissive parents • (1) poor impulse control • (2) poor compliance • (3) low achievement motivation
Children of uninvolved parents • Widespread developmental delay
Parenting Types • Summary: According to Baumrind, 4 distinct classes of parenting styles. • Each associated with different child outcomes
Parenting Types • Summary: According to Baumrind, 4 distinct classes of parenting styles. • Each associated with different child outcomes • Criticism: Can things be so simple? Do parents differ categorically?
Parental Cognitions • Parental behaviour shaped by thoughts • Example: Child acts up at dinner. • Attributions? Is the child trying to be bad? • Need to make observations • Goals? • Resolve dispute quickly? Power assertion • Teach child values? Reasoning
Parental Cognitions • Advantage over typologies? • Continuous vs categorical variables. • Greater range of variation between parents • Greater contextual sensitivity Allows for within-parent variability • More powerful statistical procedures
Punishment • Common response to child misconduct • Administration of an aversive stimulus or removal of a positive stimulus • Often includes hitting/spanking Straus & Gelles (1986) found 90% of parents of 3- and 4-year-old children reported using corporal punishment in the last year • What is the effect of punishment?
Punishment • Can help to reduce unwanted behaviours in the short run • Effectiveness depends on: • Timing (must follow soon after transgression) • Rationale? • However, corporal punishment can have lasting negative emotional and behavioural consequences.
Punishment • Corporal punishment: lasting negative long-term consequences • Olweus: higher aggression esp for boys • Modeling aggression • In the absence of positive attention, can actually reinforce negative behaviours • Children withdraw parent has less opportunity to socialize children in other ways
Fathers • Traditionally, play a secondary role in infant care and child-rearing. • New & Benigni, 1987 investigated parenting in rural Italy • Fathers not present @ birth • No physical caregiving • Infant-directed behaviours from a distance • Less involved as child grew older • Why?
Fathers • Traditionally, play a secondary role in infant care and child-rearing. • New & Benigni, 1987 investigated parenting in rural Italy • Fathers not present @ birth • No physical caregiving • Infant-directed behaviours from a distance • Less involved as child grew older • Why? • Traditional beliefs • Only women capable of emotional care • Fathers provide financial support • Only women have the skills
Fathers • Do traditional roles have any biological foundation? • Frodi et al., 1978 Compared mothers’ and fathers’ physiological reaction to quiet, smiling, or crying infants • Similar changes in heart rate, blood pressure, and skin conductance
Fathers • Do traditional roles have any behavioural foundation? • Parke & O’Leary Compared mothers’ and fathers’ behaviours toward their newborn • Fathers just as likely to hold, touch, and vocalize to their infants
Fathers • Traditional family roles not “set in stone” • In fact, fathers in some countries increasingly involved in parenting • Progressive social policy (e.g.,Sweden) • Fathers entitled to 2 years paternity leave • Reduced workday until child 8-years-old • Changing social roles (e.g., USA) • Fathers assume primary care-giving role in 20% of double-income families
Fathers • Still, change is slow; fathers still spend only 33% of the time that mothers spend with children • Why? • Little experience, lack of confidence in skills • Mothers Only 23% of employed mothers say they want more childcare help from fathers; traditional roles hard to relinquish
Fathers • Do mothers and fathers provide different kinds of child-care? • Yogman et al., 1977 Compared how mothers and fathers interact face-to-face with their infants • Fathers: interact in abrupt bursts • Mothers: rhythmic and soothing
Fathers • Do mothers and fathers provide different kinds of child-care?
Fathers • Do mothers and fathers provide different kinds of child-care? • Lamb, 1997 Compared mothers’ and fathers’ play • Fathers engage in more physical and unpredictable play (e.g., throwing, tickling, etc) • Mothers engage in calmer more co-operative play
Fathers • Do mothers and fathers provide different kinds of child-care? • Lamb, 1997 Compared mothers’ and fathers’ play • Fathers engage in more physical and unpredictable play (e.g., throwing, tickling, etc) • Mothers engage in calmer more co-operative play Consequence Infants seek out fathers for play; mothers for comfort
Fathers • Role of father underscored by the effect of the “absentee father” • Biller, 1974 Father absence has a large effect, esp for boys (gender role, aggression, academic achievement) • Why?
Fathers • Father provides “identity figure” • Loss of financial and emotional support for entire family & boys more vulnerable to stress • Today, fathers thought to make a general contribution to broad family dynamics
Summary • Parents an important socializing force in development • Considerable variability in parenting styles • Some of this variability may derive from parents’ own childhood experiences • Mothers and fathers play complimentary parenting roles