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7 Habits of H.E.T.

7 Habits of H.E.T. Unit 4 Habit 2 “Begin with the End in Mind”. What it means?. Set goals Know where you are going in life. Have a map for your life What do you want to be in life? 1/14/14. The Crossroads of Life.

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7 Habits of H.E.T.

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  1. 7 Habits of H.E.T. Unit 4 Habit 2 “Begin with the End in Mind”

  2. What it means? • Set goals • Know where you are going in life. • Have a map for your life • What do you want to be in life? 1/14/14

  3. The Crossroads of Life • Now is the time to decide what you want to be in life, so you can get prepared. • The Paths you choose today can shape you forever

  4. What about Friends? • Choose them wisely • They can be a powerful influence on: • Your attitude • Reputation • Direction

  5. What about Friends? • Do NOT settle for just who will accept you. • Sometimes it is better to have no friends, than the wrong friends. • The wrong group can lead you down the wrong path. • Friends do not always have to be your age, the right person, although older, may be the best friend you can have.

  6. What about Sex?(I knew this would get your attention) • This is a huge decision with great consequences. (Be Careful) • Don’t wait until the “heat of the moment” to choose which path, (it may be too late) • Choose your path now, when there is no pressure. • The choice can affect: health, self image, reputation, whom you will marry and much more.

  7. What about School? • What you do about school, shapes your future • Remember, there is competition for ALL jobs in the market place. • Give yourself the best chance to get a good job, by doing as well as you can in school. • True, not everyone is going to be a straight “A” student, but to determine how well you CAN do takes maximum effort. • Don’t sell yourself short or limit your opportunities, because you… • “Don’t like school” right now

  8. Who’s in the lead? • If you don’t create a vision for yourself, someone else will. • Do not give this power to someone else, you may not like the path they choose for you.

  9. How do you come up with and “End in Mind”? Here’s a suggestion: Develop a Personal Mission Statement

  10. What is a Personal Mission Statement? • A credo or motto that states what your life is about. • It is a blueprint for your life • Nations and companies have mission statements. • Your mission statement is developed from your dreams

  11. Sample Mission Statements? First and foremost, I will remain faithful always to my God. I will not underestimate the power of family unity. I will not neglect a true friend, but I will set aside time for myself as well. I will cross my bridges as I come to them (divide and conquer) I will begin all challenges with optimism, Rather than doubt. I will always maintain a positive self-image and high self-esteem, knowing that all my intentions begin with self – evaluation. Beth Haire

  12. Three “Watch-outs” Watch out # 1 – Negative Labels Watch-out #2 – “It’s All Over” Syndrome Watch-out #3 – Wrong Wall

  13. Go for the Goal KEY NO. 1: Count the Cost KEY NO. 2: Put it in Pen KEY NO. 3: Just Do It! KEY NO. 4: Use Momentous Moments KEY NO. 5: Rope Up

  14. Sample Qualities for a Relationship/Future Spouse: • Respect • Unconditional love • Honesty • Loyalty • Will support me in my pursuits/goals • Righteous (spiritual nature) • Fun/good sense of humor • Makes me laugh every day

  15. Cont. - Sample Qualities for a Relationship/Future Spouse: • Will make me feel whole-not torn apart • Good father/mother – good with children • Good listener • Will make time for me and will want the best for me in my life.

  16. List of moment that can provide momentum to make new goals: • New school year • Life – changing experience • Breaking up • New job • New relationship • Second chance • Birth • death

  17. List of moment that can provide momentum to make new goals: • Anniversary • Triumph • Setback • Moving to a new city • New season • Graduation • Marriage • Divorce

  18. List of moment that can provide momentum to make new goals: • New home • Promotion • Demotion • New look • New day

  19. Goals in Action David’s story

  20. Turning Weaknesses into Strengths • Blessings in disguise? • Focus more on what you have, rather than what you don’t have. • You have more talents than you think.

  21. Make Your Life Extraordinary

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