1. Anger Management PYAE PHYO AUNG 19-11-2012

2. Understanding Anger • Neither GOOD nor BAD • Healthy and normal to feel angry • Becomes PROBLEM when it harms you or other • Express without hurting others • Mastering the art of anger management takes work • Better relationships, achieve your goals, live healthier life

3. Myths about Anger • I shouldn’t “hold in” my anger. It’s healthy to vent and let it out • Anger, aggression and intimidation help me earn respect and get what I want • I can’t help myself. Anger isn’t something you can control • Anger management is about learning to suppress your anger

4. Why learning to control you anger is important • Out-of-control anger hurts your physical health • Out-of-control anger hurts your mental health • Out-of-control anger hurts your career • Out-of-control anger hurts your relationships with others

5. Explore what’s really behind your anger • Anger is often a cover-up for other feelings • You have a hard time compromising • You have trouble expressing emotions other than anger • You view different opinions and viewpoints as a personal challenge to you

6. Be aware of your anger warning signs and triggers • Pay attention to the way anger feels in your body • Knots in your stomach • Clenching your hands or jaw • Feeling clammy or flushed • Breathing faster • Headaches

7. Identify the negative thought patterns that trigger your temper • Overgeneralizing • Obsessing on “shoulds” and “musts” • Mind reading and jumping to conclusions • Collecting straws • Blaming

8. Learns way to cool down • Focus on the physical sensations of anger • Take some deep breaths • Exercise • Use your senses • Stretch or massage areas of tension • Slowly count to ten

9. Give yourself a reality check • How important is it in the grand scheme of things? • Is it really worth getting angry about it? • Is it worth ruining the rest of my day? • Is my response appropriate to the situation? • Is there anything I can do about it? • Is taking action worth my time?

10. Find healthier ways to express your anger • Pinpoint what you’re really angry about • Take five if things get too heated • Make the relationship your priority • Focus on the present • Choose your battles • Be willing to forgive • Know when to let something go

11. When to seek help for anger management • Constantly frustrated and angry no matter what you try • Causes problems at work or in your relationships • Avoid new events and people because you feel like you can’t control your temper • gotten in trouble with the law due to your anger • led to physical violence

12. If your loved one has an anger management problem • Set clear boundaries about what you will and will not tolerate. • Wait for a time when you are both calm to talk • Remove yourself from the situation if your loved one does not calm down. • Consider counseling or therapy for yourself if you are having a hard time standing up for yourself. • Put your safety first. Trust your instincts.

13. Reference • file:///G:/Anger%20Management/anger_management_control_tips_techniques.htm

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