What Language Are You Speaking?

1. What Language Are You Speaking?

2. Denn so hat Gott die Welt geliebt, dass er seinen eingeborenen Sohn gab, damit jeder der an ihn glaubt gab, nicht verloren werden, sondern das ewige Leben haben Neboť Bůh tak miloval svět, že dal svého jednorozeného syna, aby žádný, kdo v něho věří, nezahynul, ale měl život věčný Για το Θεό αγάπησε έτσι τον κόσμο, ώστε έδωσε τον μονογενή Υιό Του, ότι όποιος πιστεύει σ 'Αυτόν δεν πρέπει να χαθεί αλλά έχουν αιώνια ζωή

3. At 5 years old, girls are 35% more insulin resistant than boys. • In girls, the language areas of the brain develop before the areas used for spatial relations, in boys the opposite is true. • The typical teenage girl has a sense of hearing that is 7 times more acute than that of a teenage boy. • In girls, emotion and language are processed in the same area of the brain. In boys, talking and feeling involve separate brain regions. • Stress enhances learning in males. The same stress impairs learning in females.

4. There is a gender difference in speed of processinginformation, so that girls tend to do better on timed test conditions than boys. • On average, boys demonstrate higher aptitude onSAT scores, while girls have higher GPA’s. • Pediatric liver transplants are far less successfulwhen the donors are girls.

5. From, “Smart Boys, Bad Grades” • Boys get 70% of D’s and F’s in school; girls get 60%of A’s. • 80% of high school drop outs are boys. • Both boys and girls agree that teachers tend tofavor girls in the classroom. • Males have 15% less serotonin than females. • Boys’ attention span is shorter that girls’. • Boys need more physical movement for optimum learning. • Boys mature later than girls. • Boys’ brains need more rest than girls’.

7. Boys and girls are different! Men & women are different! Men and women speak different languages.

8. Denn so hat Gott die Welt geliebt, dass er seinen eingeborenen Sohn gab, damit jeder der an ihn glaubt gab, nicht verloren werden, sondern das ewige Leben haben Neboť Bůh tak miloval svět, že dal svého jednorozeného syna, aby žádný, kdo v něho věří, nezahynul, ale měl život věčný Για το Θεό αγάπησε έτσι τον κόσμο, ώστε έδωσε τον μονογενή Υιό Του, ότι όποιος πιστεύει σ 'Αυτόν δεν πρέπει να χαθεί αλλά έχουν αιώνια ζωή

9. Speaking Her Language - Love Ephesians 5:25-30, 33 Characteristics of this love: A. Sacrificial. Vs. 25 B. Sanctifying. Vs. 26,27 C. Self-defined. Vs. 28 D. Sourced in Christ. Vs. 29 - “Nourish,” to help develop, bring up - “Cherish,” to be fond of, brood. Used of a hen on her nest. 2. Conditions of this love:

11. Speaking His Language - Respect • Ephesians 5:33 • We err, we fail to make connection in our marriages because our tendency is to give our spouses what we need. • Ladies, love is your most basic need. It is not yourhusband’s. • There is no command in Scripture for the wife to • love her husband. • The great error in our teaching on marriage has been our emphasis on love to the exclusion of respect.

12. Speaking His Language – Respect • Ephesians 5:33 • “Reverence” – phobos • “To venerate, to treat with deference, to respect” • Ephesians 5:22-24, Biblical respect is for the wife to follow the leadership of her husband in every area, understanding that He is God’s appointed authorityin her life and that her willing submission to his leadership is an inerrant indicator of her relationshipto Christ. • This command is also unconditional.

14. Love wife = obedience to God Respect husband = obedience to God