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  1. Marriage Boot Camp

  2. Big Group Sharing

  3. Big Group Dance Date Sharing

  4. Couples Life Maps

  5. Life Maps Ladies: Share your Life Map

  6. Life Maps Ladies: What is affecting your ability to give 100% to your relationship and your mate?

  7. Life Maps Ladies: What can your mate do to help you be free from the past?

  8. Life Maps Men: Thank your mate for sharing their Life Map with you

  9. Life Maps Men: Share your Life Map

  10. Life Maps Men: What is affecting your ability to give 100% to your relationship and your mate?

  11. Life Maps Men: What can your mate do to help you be free from the past?

  12. Life Maps Ladies: Thank your mate for sharing their Life Map with you

  13. Boot Camp

  14. A Little Sex Talk

  15. Top 5 Needs MENWOMEN Frequency Exclusivity/Safety Appreciation/Desire Connection Visual Stimulation Foreplay Creativity/Variety Romance Oral Hygiene

  16. G Spot “For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.” ~Isabel Allende

  17. Sexual Differences Phase MEN WOMEN Excitement Visually Created Emotionally Created Develops fast Develops slow Little focus required Conscious focus required If lost, easily regained If lost, more difficult to regain. Moves quickly to orgasm Moves more slowly to orgasm Plateau Generally, very brief Generally, longer. Less easily maintained- either moves More easily maintained. to climax or loss of excitement Orgasm Ten to thirteen seconds. Six to sixty seconds. Limited number of orgasms Unlimited orgasms possible. First orgasms most intense. Later orgasms most intense. Resolution Rest period needed between No rest period necessary orgasms. between orgasms Sleepy, dreamlike state Mentally calm but alert .

  18. Sexual Differences: Excitement Phase MEN Visually Created Develops fast Little focus required If lost, easily regained Moves quickly to orgasm WOMEN Emotionally Created Develops slow Conscious focus required If lost, more difficult to regain Moves more slowly to orgasm

  19. Sexual Differences: Plateau Phase MEN Generally, very brief Less easily maintained- either moves to climax or loss of excitement WOMEN Generally, longer. More easily maintained

  20. Sexual Differences: Orgasm Phase MEN Ten to thirteen seconds. Limited number of orgasms First orgasms most intense. WOMEN Six to sixty seconds Unlimited orgasms possible Later orgasms most intense

  21. Sexual Differences: Resolution Phase MEN Rest period needed between orgasms Sleepy dreamlike state WOMEN No rest period necessary between orgasms Mentally calm but alert

  22. Average Happy Ending MENWOMEN 5 Minutes 2 Days 10 Minutes 10 Minutes 2 Minutes 12 Minutes

  23. Average Happy Ending MENWOMEN 5 Minutes 2 Days 10 Minutes 10 Minutes 2 Minutes 12 Minutes

  24. A Little Sex Talk Anatomy Lesson A B

  25. A Little Sex Talk IMPRINTING A B

  26. A Little Sex Talk PORNOGRAPHY A B

  27. A Little Sex Talk Get into a SAME SEX SMALL GROUP A B

  28. Small Group Discussion Tell your group about your earliest sexual experience and how it affects you today 1 3 4 2

  29. Small Group Discussion What do you want most in your sex life? 1 3 4 2

  30. Small Group Discussion What stops you from having the kind of sex life that you want? 1 3 4 2

  31. Small Group Discussion What can you do to create the kind of sex life that you want? 1 3 4 2

  32. A Little Sex Talk Get into a DYAD WITH YOUR MATE A B

  33. Discussion with your Mate Something new that I realized is… B A

  34. Discussion with your Mate What I want most for our sex life is… For this I’m willing to… B A

  35. Boot Camp

  36. Lunch Break

  37. Unresolved Heartache

  38. Men: Share the things you have done to hurt your mate and your relationship.

  39. Ladies: Add anything else that has hurt you in your relationship

  40. Ladies: Share how these hurts make you feel about yourself and your relationship.

  41. Men: Mirror back the feelings; say, “I hear that you feel...”

  42. Men: Sincerely apologize for the hurt you have caused your mate.

  43. Ladies: Thank your mate for their apology

  44. Ladies: Share the things you have done to hurt your mate and your relationship.

  45. Men: Add anything else that has hurt you in your relationship

  46. Men: Tell your mate how the hurts make you feel about yourself and your relationship.

  47. Ladies: Mirror back the feelings; say, “I hear that you feel...”

  48. Ladies: Sincerely apologize for the hurt you have caused your mate.

  49. Men: Thank your mate for their apology