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7th Grade Survival Guide. OHMS Counselors Mr. Cherry Mrs. Garrard Mrs. Bartholomew Mrs. Walker. Why do Bullies Bully? . No Empathy Get Attention Gain Popularity Feel Important Feel Big and Powerful Family Risk Factors Peer Risk Factors Victims Themselves. Types of Bullying.
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7th Grade Survival Guide OHMS Counselors Mr. Cherry Mrs. Garrard Mrs. Bartholomew Mrs. Walker
Why do Bullies Bully? • No Empathy • Get Attention • Gain Popularity • Feel Important • Feel Big and Powerful • Family Risk Factors • Peer Risk Factors • Victims Themselves
Types of Bullying • Physical • Verbal • Social • Cyber-Bullying
Physical • Hitting • Shoving • Grabbing • Kicking • Spitting • Flicking • Threatening gestures • Tripping • Punching • Stealing • Bumping someone on purpose • Destroying or hiding someone’s belongings
Verbal • Threats • Lies, Rumors • Insulting Family • Harassing (gender, race, religion, size, intellect) • Teasing • Name-Calling
Social • Dirty looks • Refusing to talk to someone • Telling others not to be someone’s friend • Spreading rumors • Gossiping • Making fun of someone • Mimicking • Ditching/Leaving outa
What Forms of Bullying Do You See? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHzhp8gs_aA
Cyber-bullyingIs Bullying by Using Technology: • Sending mean messages on the computer or cell phone • Posting embarrassing photos online • Spreading gossip/rumors online • Threatening or harassing someone online • Pretending to be someone else online • Spreading gossip/rumors online
Words Hurt… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9tYFsrlr50
Before you SPEAK, TEXT, POST…. What are the Consequences?
Why Do Bystanders “Stand By” and Watch? • 35% do something (UP-Standers) • 38% believe it’s “none of their business” • 27% want to do something…but don’t…because…
An “Up-Stander is Someone Who… • Sticks up for you • Takes a stand against bullying • Helps you when you need it most
Don’t Stand By…Stand Up!! • Did you know… • --That if one person watching a bullying situation says "Stop it!", half the time the bullying will stop? --When you stand by and do nothing you’re saying that bullying is okay with you. It makes you no better than the bully themselves.
What You Can Do…as an Up-Stander • Speak up!...use your voice • Don’t give the bully an audience! • Be there!...stand next to the person being bullied
Up-standers are the Key to Stop Bullying • You could say… • “Leave him alone.” • “That’s not cool!” • “We don’t do that here!” • “Let’s get out of here!” • “Hey! That’s not funny.” • “Stop!” with eye contact
What You Can Do…If You Are Being Bullied • Ignore the bully & Walk away • Laugh …use humor to make the situation better • Stand up to the bully in a non-violent way • Be assertive • “Stop it, I don’t like what you are doing.” • Report the bullying to a trusted adult
How to Report… • Tell a teacher, counselor or administrator • Use the Buddy Box • Text to the OHMS Buddy Line 801-997-0771 • Facebook message the “OHMS Counseling Center” Facebook page
Review • How many forms of bullying are there and what are they? • What does THINK mean? • What can YOU do as an UP-STANDER? • What can YOU do if YOU are being bullied • How can you report?