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This guide, created by OHMS Counselors Mr. Cherry, Mrs. Garrard, Mrs. Bartholomew, and Mrs. Walker, addresses the critical issue of bullying among 7th graders. It explores the motivations behind bullying, various forms it takes—physical, verbal, social, and cyberbullying—and the roles of both victims and bystanders. This resource empowers students to become "up-standers" who actively oppose bullying, offering practical advice on how to respond, support peers, and report incidents. Together, we can cultivate a safer and more inclusive school environment.
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7th Grade Survival Guide OHMS Counselors Mr. Cherry Mrs. Garrard Mrs. Bartholomew Mrs. Walker
Why do Bullies Bully? • No Empathy • Get Attention • Gain Popularity • Feel Important • Feel Big and Powerful • Family Risk Factors • Peer Risk Factors • Victims Themselves
Types of Bullying • Physical • Verbal • Social • Cyber-Bullying
Physical • Hitting • Shoving • Grabbing • Kicking • Spitting • Flicking • Threatening gestures • Tripping • Punching • Stealing • Bumping someone on purpose • Destroying or hiding someone’s belongings
Verbal • Threats • Lies, Rumors • Insulting Family • Harassing (gender, race, religion, size, intellect) • Teasing • Name-Calling
Social • Dirty looks • Refusing to talk to someone • Telling others not to be someone’s friend • Spreading rumors • Gossiping • Making fun of someone • Mimicking • Ditching/Leaving outa
What Forms of Bullying Do You See? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHzhp8gs_aA
Cyber-bullyingIs Bullying by Using Technology: • Sending mean messages on the computer or cell phone • Posting embarrassing photos online • Spreading gossip/rumors online • Threatening or harassing someone online • Pretending to be someone else online • Spreading gossip/rumors online
Words Hurt… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9tYFsrlr50
Before you SPEAK, TEXT, POST…. What are the Consequences?
Why Do Bystanders “Stand By” and Watch? • 35% do something (UP-Standers) • 38% believe it’s “none of their business” • 27% want to do something…but don’t…because…
An “Up-Stander is Someone Who… • Sticks up for you • Takes a stand against bullying • Helps you when you need it most
Don’t Stand By…Stand Up!! • Did you know… • --That if one person watching a bullying situation says "Stop it!", half the time the bullying will stop? --When you stand by and do nothing you’re saying that bullying is okay with you. It makes you no better than the bully themselves.
What You Can Do…as an Up-Stander • Speak up!...use your voice • Don’t give the bully an audience! • Be there!...stand next to the person being bullied
Up-standers are the Key to Stop Bullying • You could say… • “Leave him alone.” • “That’s not cool!” • “We don’t do that here!” • “Let’s get out of here!” • “Hey! That’s not funny.” • “Stop!” with eye contact
What You Can Do…If You Are Being Bullied • Ignore the bully & Walk away • Laugh …use humor to make the situation better • Stand up to the bully in a non-violent way • Be assertive • “Stop it, I don’t like what you are doing.” • Report the bullying to a trusted adult
How to Report… • Tell a teacher, counselor or administrator • Use the Buddy Box • Text to the OHMS Buddy Line 801-997-0771 • Facebook message the “OHMS Counseling Center” Facebook page
Review • How many forms of bullying are there and what are they? • What does THINK mean? • What can YOU do as an UP-STANDER? • What can YOU do if YOU are being bullied • How can you report?